ok... this boy got dumped by this girl and i secretly kinda liked him when they were going out, and when he got dumped he asked me out. i sorta didnt like him as much as i did. he kept on asking me over and over again.("will you go out with me?") and i keep on saying no and stuff. i talk to him on aim but i dont tlk to him at school {because i am too shy} but now im starting to sorta like him more but he said that he is starting to not like me...what should i do??.....I NEED YOUR HELP badly!
2007-02-25 22:42:38 · 7 answers · asked by Kristen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hun you have a case of the want what you cant have's if you cant talk to him at school then you should just call it a crush and call it a day but i know you wont listen to me so here do this go up to him and tell him you would liker to go out with him ( in person ) and that you are sorry to keep turning him down thats why he said he was starting to not like you guys dont like to be told no or rejected
2007-02-25 22:48:23 · answer #1 · answered by hakaes24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about how this must look from his view. You kept telling him you wouldn't go out with him, sometimes you talk to him sometimes you won't. If someone treated you like that would you start to not like him? In all relationships always be honest with people and always put yourself in the other persons shoes to understand how that person feels. Now talk to him and tell him you would like to start again if he is willing. You would like to go out on a date and see how things go from there.
2007-02-26 06:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by jingles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start spending more time with him and talk to him in school.He is losing interest in you because you don't go out with him and you are ignoring him in school.Be less shy and make sure that he likes you.
2007-02-26 07:05:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from the boys!!!! Just stick with the books. You wont even remember him in 6 years.
2007-02-26 06:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by emmf98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to use you to make his ex jealous. He sounds like he is 2 faced, just forget about him. He wants to make you like him and then dump you. Its a game to him.
2007-02-26 07:06:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just reask him out. say that i wasn't sure if i was to go out with you then because you just broke up with someone. hopefully you can reconsider going out with me. or soemthing like that.
2007-02-26 07:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.be bold, u have to make the first move.
2007-02-26 07:00:27 · answer #7 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋