my boyfriends ex keeps buttin her nose in our business such as our sex life and i know her very well as well as i went to school with her i fell out with her coz she stole my clothes and jewelrly and now she is trying everything to split us up i havent seen her since school 3 years ago so why now does she have to start being a ***** to me for please help i dont wat to do i have spoken to her nicely then abit firmly but she wont listen wat else can i do
2007-02-25 22:21:06 · 17 answers · asked by blue_lead_sky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
because she is a nasty person who needs to back off an get her own life an stop hassling you an your boyfriend .
2007-02-26 07:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by lianbiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have talked to her nicely about it, It would be difficult but I'd advice you avoid her completely and concentrate on your relationship. She will get tired of your silence someday and back off. You don't have any biz with her but your BF so let him handle it. If he keeps seeing you as the victim he definately do something if he's for real. Goodluck!
2007-02-25 22:39:16 · answer #2 · answered by Lechs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people like that rarely do listen to the woman.
It for your boyfriend to tell her to but out!.
If that fails then a good ole slap in the face may shake her up a bit.( not that i condone violence)
Well just a bit
Well alot really
You know what forget all the talking and go strangle the B****
2007-02-25 22:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by magic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This chick is obviously very jealous of you, sounds like she has a psychological problem. Talk to her once more, making it very clear that she is not to mess with you and also ask your bf to make it clear to her that they are through...hopefully she will get the picture and will fade surely.Good luck
2007-02-25 22:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a simular prob a few mths back and all it boils down 2 is jelousy youve got wot she cant have. get your bf 2 nip it in the bud once and for all after all it is his ex and if she still persists on sticking her nose in where it dont belong then use her like a rag doll !!!!!
2007-02-25 22:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not acknowledge her at all. Do not take her calls, respond to emails or any other form of communication. That goes for your BF as well. Each time that you give her attention of any type, it only reinforces her behavior.
2007-02-25 22:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by Michele D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab hold of her firmly and tell her to keep out of your business
2007-02-25 23:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL YOU NEED TO TELL THIS GIRL WHATS REALLY GOOD TO MISS YOU WITH ALL THAT B.S. AND STAY OUT OF YOU R RELATIONSHIP SEEMS TO ME THAT GIRL WANNA BE YOU SO SINCE SHE CANT SHE GOING TO TAKE EVERYTHING FROM YOU BUT DONT LET HER DO IT SHOW HER ITS A CRAZY SIDE IN YOU TO AND YOU SOUND LIKE A NICE PERSON AND NOT FOR ALL THIS DRAMA BUT IF YOU KEEP LET HER CONTINUE SHE WILL DO WORSE LIKE TRY TO SLEEP WITH YOU MAN TELL HER SHE CANT BE YOU SHE NEED TO FIND HERSELF AND STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM YOU AND OUT YOUR BUSSINESS
2007-02-25 23:32:22 · answer #8 · answered by mocha27girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she obviously still has feelings for your b/f and at the moment i dont think anything you say will stop her trying to butt in, so dont let her think she is winning by giving her any reaction just simply ignore her and make sure your b/f ignores her too!
2007-02-25 22:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Honesty ♥.•´ `*.¸ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are u even talking to her? if your bf loves u he shouldn't listen to her, he should ignore whatever she says. u also just ignore her. when she sees her words and actions have no impact on u both whatsoever she will eventually get bored and leave u alone
2007-02-25 22:36:50 · answer #10 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋