So if you read my earlier questions you know, my wife cheated.
But awnser me this.. The guy she sept with was a manager where we worked ( I was day manager he was grave). Me and him were "friends" He pressed charges on me because when he wouldnt come outside for his severe *** kickin, i punched out his window and security door.
2nd, Her sister who i have known and we have all been close for years, is dating him now!!!!
Am i crazy or is that all as ****** up as the cheating????
2007-02-25 21:58:28 · 3 answers · asked by Patrick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
everyone doesn't have your moral character, we are all different, what did u hope to gain by beating him up? cheating is bad, but u should have distanced yourself from him and the situation before u caused yourself harm. u chose the wrong way to handle this, cheating is bad, but it does happen and sometimes for no good reason. why blame the other man, or woman, it was your spouse who chose to do it and made it happen.
2007-02-25 23:07:01 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand how you would be furious when finding out that your wife has cheated on you. However, getting violent, and beating up the guy she was with.. will not help the situation, at all.
Violence doesn't solve anything. Honestly, if I was your wife.. I would be worried for my own safety, after you reacted that way.
Don't get me wrong.. you have every right to be hurt and upset over what she did to you. But, the blame is on both of them, not just the guy she was with. But like I said, violence is not the answer.
She cheated, and that does say a lot about her character.. but the fact that you went to beat up the guy.. that says a lot about yours as well.
Next time you and your wife have any problems, you need to try to talk it out.. instead of running around trying to beat people up.
2007-02-26 01:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by arkiegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can under stand you point , but please try to rember , it was both of them,,if she not wanted him, he not be able to sleep with her,,, i under stand it made you feel better but, honest you throe the first blow,,, so he had the right, sound like both the sister an wife turn on you,,,
2007-02-26 01:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋