Why do allot of married women hate the fact that their husband is watching porn on a regular basis. What are your reasons?.
Do you not realize that men are visual creatures and that our porn viewing in no way reflects how we feel or think about you?. Nor does it reflect how much we desire something else but you.
Unless you are being neglected in your relationship sexually and emotionally i don't understand the need to demonize it. Please enlighten me.
2007-02-25 21:54:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I will read all answers no matter how many so don't be shy or think its futile
2007-02-25 22:55:03 · update #1
My husband not only had a porn habit in EXCESSIVE amounts, he was also into watching little girls. The kiddie crap, I never knew about till after we were married. I am getting my marriage annuled. Aside from that, he watched so much porn, that he could never get it up with a "real" woman. No kidding. He was physically unable to take care of things unless he was in front of the computer working his hand. His was an addiction.
Porn is perfectly ok to watch when BOTH are watching it together, or if she hasn't got a problem with him watching it even if she doesn't get into it. As long as she is not being neglected in her needs, and as long as he doesn't forget that women are NOT visual creatures then there shouldn't be a problem with it. Alot of guys tend to forget that and leave us unsatisfied, so we have to take care of things ourselves if we want satisfaction.
2007-02-26 01:22:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why are you even asking this question? Porn is a sick and twisted way of how people have sex and why. No one is true to each other and all they do is cheat and have sex with anyone and everyone. Not good at all. I understand that men are visual creatures BUT this is still no reason or excuse to watch this sick and twisted stuff and get off on it. You need to watch your wife and be turned on by just her and get off with her! You need help for your porn addiction or it will only get worse. You obviously do want or desire something more then just your wife because you are watching these other women or men and lusting after them in your heart. It is in your mind already and may lead to more someday and even happen in real life with you if you are not careful.
2007-02-25 22:33:55 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Forgive me, I'm not a woman, but I think you'll find my response on this interesting. Hopefully, some women will read it and gain some insight.
Erotica is simply an alternative form of sexual arousal, enjoyed by both men AND women alike.
As long as a partner is taking care of his/her obligations and responsibilities (job, family) and seeing that the other person is being fulfilled sexually, there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with enjoying alternative forms of arousal.
Most female's initial reaction to their partner enjoying erotica is one of offense; their sexual identity is somehow threatened; believing that their partner's arousal and satisfaction should come exclusively from their vagina/mouth/hand. That is sad.
A solid, well-balanced relationship is not threatened by erotica or other fantasies.
Here's just a few figures on erotica sales:
Hilton, Marriot, Hyatt, Sheraton and Holiday Inn all offer adult films on in-room pay-per-view television systems. And they are purchased by a whopping 50 percent of their guests, accounting for nearly 70 percent of their in-room profits. One hotel owner said, "We have to have it. Our guests demand it.”
There are well over 800 million rentals of adult videotapes and DVDs in video stores across the country, and that's not 800 guys renting a million tapes each.
2007-02-26 00:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
porns affect men women children in an unhealthy way.
if you watch sometimes , its ok .
but in regujar basis? its already addiction.
if you are addicted , its difficult for you to see the world normally. you only think about sex.
and sooner or later you may want to be excited to see your wife screwed by another man, boy I KNOW SUCH A COUPLE.
and you will say " why not? "
2007-02-25 22:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
me and my husband both watch porn together anykind u name it but man on man. hubby dont like that lol. we go to strip clubs together to. but yes i think my husband has a adiction to porn and to sex. he is alway downloadin it. and always gettin on the computer on a REGULAR basis and watchin it. it drives me nuts. i dont mind if he watches it when im not around but yes i get jelous. some times. im glad he dont cheat on me, but damn enough is enough sometimes. i watch porn with him and i enjoy it and i watch it with out him too. but i feel that there is a limit to how much a married or taken man should watch. it is adictive. been there done that.
2007-02-25 22:20:00 · answer #5 · answered by some_person 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not so much the watching of it...it is the "move your naked butt out of my way so I can see the TV" attitude while they are watching it. Just kidding. Seriously, porn makes an insecure woman feel like she is not good enough for her husband and so he has turned elsewhere.
2007-02-25 23:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by Li 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
don't buy this women. this is a sickness and if you fall into this line of rubbish then he will be bringing his business to outside sources. porn has it place if both husband and wife enjoy an occasional soft porn movie but the porn they are putting out today is way over the border and it will open up feelings in him that I don't think you would want to satisfy. That is the number one customer for the prostitutes on the street. They will do what the wives and sweethearts won't..Hight risk of sickness, robbers and disease..YOU could be infecting yourself and your wife and unborn children plus you would be warped. Consider how you would feel if all your friends and relatives found out your mates dirty little secret. Pervert?
2007-02-25 22:07:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 4⤋
Whats wrong with porn ? theres never going to be a realtionship form it - it gets guys excited then when its time to go to bed they are ready to give their girl the time of their life - and most girls like that ......... would you prefer he was frigid?
2007-02-25 22:45:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree with you....so many women make such a big deal out of this.....at least their husbands are home and not out at bars or strip clubs.......
2007-02-25 22:08:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
this is because ---
after seeing **** , either you may expect the same from your
wife.or you may experiment what you saw, with some one
who tolerate you.
both are dangerous in your wife angle.
.
2007-02-26 00:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by S.M.R. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋