i have never been a jealous person i feel its a waste of time and energy. he can talk to anyone in the world that he wants to it dont bug me. and if i catch him eyeing a hot girl if shes really hot i might say 'Damn shes fine!' and leave it at that. one of his old gf even lived w/ us when she was going threw a divorce. i just think that it is crazy to get all mad over little things. and i have told him that i tell him that he has enough jealousy for the both of us.
2007-02-25 21:03:43 · 11 answers · asked by notes from an angry white chic 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree with you 110% that being jealous is a waste of time. It all goes to show you feel secure in yourself and that's brilliant. I wish there were more people like you. I wonder if he comments about hot chicks on purpose to get a rise out of you? Or maybe he's just using it as a ploy to get some attention from you. Seems he's insecure himself, so maybe a little bit of reassurance won't go astray. Hope this helps, kind regards Penny xx
2007-02-25 21:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by Vanessa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im not a jealous person myself, but I dont know if I could handle the ex girlfriend living with us. You are a very secure woman and you believe in yourself. You believe that your husband couldnt love anyone else but you, that is why youre not jealous and its a wonderful thing. Dont ever change, but I just hope your husband doesnt take this thing too far. He is obviously very insecure if he is trying to make you jealous. Why is he insecure? Does he think you dont love him? Why on earth would he deliberately try to make you jealous if he knew how much you loved him? Be very careful because you may not be jealous, but if your husband is insecure with your love and is deliberately trying to make you jealous he could go one step further and end up cheating with another woman in the hope he will get a reaction out of you. I hope this doesnt happen, but is certainly on the cards if he is as insecure as you are making him out to be. There has to be a reason for his insecurity......so I ask again, does he know beyond a doubt that you love him with all your heart?
You need to demonstrate somehow that he is the only man for you, because if he is deliberately trying to make you jealous he is obviously not feeling your love.
2007-02-25 21:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you He is the one with the problem. Number 1 he should not be doing things to try and hurt you and make you jealous. I wonder if he is cheating on you. You need to find out if he is being unfaithful or not because he can turn around and give you and std or something like that if he is cheating and trust me you do not want that happening. If he really loved you he would not be doing things to try and make you jealous anyway. Instead he would be loving you and spoiling you rotten.
2007-02-25 22:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of sure dishonest could desire to be there or nope its ur senses taking part in up. now some people who have not any have faith for others do see the comparable in the different guy or woman. anywaz. if ur pal is inflicting u nightmares then why do u have certainly one of those pal . time u had distanced from her dont u sense. approximately ur husband if he cheated as quickly as what assure he wont do it back. I certainly have a feeling ur hsband desires a reliable councelling. if there are some issues u dont like approximately him that's inflicting ur marriage to diaster shouldnt he keep away from those blunders. and comparable is going for u. nicely suitable now u dont be attentive to what is going on so u cant say lots if heavily he's dishonest or its ur jeaoulsy taking part in up. get a extra effective image of issues attempt findng out and conversing to him. inform him what the prons and cons of this courting would be to ur marriage and what disaster it may elevate. i skinny ultimate component could be that u adult men communicate issues over. whether he doenst advance pliz flow forward and end dropping time on certainly one of those loser. get a grip of existence.
2016-12-18 11:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I wish I had some of the confidence you have! well done you. But as mentioned earlier your husband may take it a step further to get a reaction out of you, we humans do some silly things to get reactions from the ones we love and they tend to have consequenses too. Just give him a little reassurance and I think that will do the trick! P.S any tips for us girls out here on the confidence steaks!!!!!
2007-02-25 21:44:52 · answer #5 · answered by marvalgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want to say it good that you see ,jealous, it a waste of time,,,for ,it only pull you a part,,,,it to show you trust him, which a lot of married dont have,,,i to have a wife like you an even thos i love to pick an joke, she know it my nature,,,,but i dont under stand why he want you to be mad, for him being his self,,, for you sound to be a sweet person, an i think a lot of men an women could learn a lot from you,
2007-02-26 01:06:11 · answer #6 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong
Could you talk to my G/F. She gets jealous fast.
2007-02-25 22:17:32 · answer #7 · answered by emmf98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should show him that you care and don't want to lose him...
Because eventually he'll start looking for that person which wants him to be by his side and show affection.
2007-02-25 21:16:10 · answer #8 · answered by Martin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw him a bone if it will make him happy. Blow up the next time he takes a peek.
2007-02-25 21:13:44 · answer #9 · answered by Jayson Kane 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why does he want to make you jealous? That's childish!
2007-02-25 21:13:31 · answer #10 · answered by LanternPrime 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋