Why is it that men can never seem to understand how women or fathom women out?
Help! I want to make a book and become a MILLIONAIRE
2007-02-25 20:50:02 · 13 answers · asked by redcar_rebel 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Thanks for the question. We women are still trying to figure out why men like to create wars.
Besides, if we knew the answer to this dont you think WE would have written a book and made OURSELVES millionaires...or that should be 'millionairess''.
2007-02-25 22:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by Mistress_T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men find it difficult to cut into a womans brain (mentally) because they are on a different wave length mentally. A man would not understand why a woman would be angry with him if he sees his mates instead of her - after he had said to her that he would definetely meet her! This is because he does not want 2 admit the fact that he smokes too much weed & can't be arsed to get up & meet her!!! (My ex) Well really he views it that he is doing something good by seeing his friends so thinks that his girlfriend would except that as a brilliant excuse!
Really all a man has to do 2 understand a woman is get to know her, listen (extremely carefully), say appropraite things (such as "you are funny, you are a sexy kisser") that you actually mean & tell her she is special to you - then you can get away with alot of things! I think many men have tried to wright books about the complexities of women & failed miserably - that is because the books have been read by the wrong audience - the women themselves! Or they have been written by gay men & so are slightly funnier for the women to read so would do better due to there sarcasm.
A key to make a woman open up is to make her laugh - happiness can make us nicely honest & you will find a woman a lot more fun when she is laughing! & more attractive so work on being nicely witty!
2007-02-25 21:25:05 · answer #2 · answered by beca_wood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think men and women are not so different as we'd like to think. Baba Yaga (the real one) has posted an interesting article on this subject elsewhere. I think men and women can fathom each other out, easily, sometimes it's just easier to say that we can't. Also, a lot of the time, conflicting interests get in the way of understanding.
2007-02-25 20:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by Marianne M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cos you dont listen very well if we just made each other happy then all would be fine, how do you stay in luv with each other forever thats what i would like to know, but your question is good just like we can't work men out either use can be so closed at times and cold and all over us like a dog on heat the next minuite wota that all about??
2007-02-26 03:36:24 · answer #4 · answered by suzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be its because men treat women as if there all the same
2007-02-26 03:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by Freethinking Liberal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its because ya don't take the TIME, ya can;t know us for 1 night and think ya got us all figured out, ours is an age where machines think and men who try! how do ya like me now?
2007-02-25 21:16:57 · answer #6 · answered by Billie R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm gonna put this question on my watchlist for a bit. I am a female and I can't figure them out.
2007-02-25 20:54:25 · answer #7 · answered by shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your asking the wrong question..lol.. why not ask why women cant be happy with their lot.. women are never sattisfied. they could have a great family, marriage, home and enough money to be content but they always want more.. they never have enough.
we gave them the vote and the world went mad!!!
2007-02-25 20:55:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
ha ha, love the want to make a book and be a millionare bit...
2007-02-25 21:07:56 · answer #9 · answered by Sheldon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now thats a real Question!
If you get some answers PLEASE email me!
id love to find out a few answers to this one.
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2007-02-25 20:56:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋