MEN how many lovers does a girl have to have before you would consider her a no no would you be with a woman whos had hundreds of lovers does it really matter smae question to women and who do you think has the bigger standereds many people thing men would sleep with anyone and women are abit more picky true??
2007-02-25 20:05:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A question I have wrestled with. I have had only three lovers, and was married to each of them. My current wife has had considerably more and is much younger than me. I came to the conclusion that it doesn't matter much providing that the nobody was cheating and that if she had other lovers before me that if she didn't cheat on them it was a good sign that she wouldn't cheat on me.
In terms of lovers I don't think there is a clear gender differentiation in standards but more a generational and local morality issue which determines what is acceptable.
2007-02-25 20:13:47 · answer #1 · answered by John B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually women don't tell people how many lovers they have had and if they have had an extraordnarily large number they usually reduce it so that it sounds better! Men on the other hand like to boast about it to their friends but most girls dont want to hear a large number either.
2007-02-25 20:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by jaygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it wouldn't matter one bit how many lovers my partner has has before me. The key words here are "before me". Why worry about it? I cant change what I have have done in the past. There may be a few regrets, but we all have those.
If you cant continue with a relationship because your partner has had more partners then you, then your a shallow person who gets what they deserve.
2007-02-25 20:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by simon m 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Overall i think men have more sexual relationships than women. For most women sex is a bigger deal than it seems to be to men. For men it seems like a badge of honor to sleep with a lot of women. For women it seems more personal. To me sex without love leaves a woman feeling empty inside. The orgasm can be great but without true affection can leave you feeling "dirty" Just my opinion
2007-02-25 20:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I know there are women as bad as men who would ake anything. But overall i believe that women are more fussy, although to defend men, im sure there are plenty out there who have standards too
2007-02-25 20:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by gemma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would rather sleep with a guy that has had 50 lovers and used protection then a guy who has had 2 lovers and not used anything
2007-02-25 21:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by pinklinz@btinternet.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you ask me they all want a virgin with lots of good tricks and that knows how to do stuff...I keep the number to myself as it a) does not matter as I am now with that guy and not the others and b) guys would only get the wrong idea- smile and enjoy!
2007-02-25 20:13:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think women have as many sexual partners as most men, if not more .. Most women will lie to you about how many they have had, I personally don't think it matters.
If you are hungry, you eat.
If you are thirsty, you drink
People shouldn't judge, or name call either sexes for being sexually active, its nobody elses business.
2007-02-26 00:25:32 · answer #8 · answered by Hippy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes women are a bit more picky as with men they dont really care who they sleep with
2007-02-25 20:18:12 · answer #9 · answered by michelle m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have only been with one man - my fiance. I have been with him for 5.5 years and hope to spend my life with him.
I would think that a woman who has been with hundreds of men would a bit of slap*er!
2007-02-25 20:10:40 · answer #10 · answered by Sandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋