im married and i wont to spice up things a little any pointers
2007-02-25 19:49:16 · 5 answers · asked by Jessica B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
romance always hits the bull's eye. little things like a back rub or foot rub when your partner has had a bad day, cooking their favorite dish, giving them space to watch their favorite soap opera or sport etc....these always help reassure your partner that you love them and they'll believe it easily when they notice the efforts you're making to make them happy.
2007-02-25 20:34:17 · answer #1 · answered by therna 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Plan the unexpected and initiate the events yourself.
Ambush him in the shower or bath, don't just look but jump in.
If he is watching TV join him, but naked and with a bottle of wine and chocolates in your hand. Ask him what he wants first, I am sure you will get the answer you want.
Kiss him when he doesn't expect it and in places he doesn't expect.
Buy some erotic movies and play out the various roles together.
Write messages about what you would like to do to him and leave them where he will find them at unexpected times. Pulling a note out of your pocket and reading it while sitting in a boring meeting concentrates the mind a lot.
If you buy new shoes ask him how they look and to avoid him being distracted from the shoes by other clothes leave them off.
Offer him some whipped cream as a bedtime snack. Put it anywhere that you want to be licked, it does wash off after all.
Serve dinner wearing just an apron.
Use your imagination to generate some surprise and you will soon be trying to outdo each other.
2007-02-26 04:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by John B 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My favourite way is to plan a night where you know whats going to happen and he doesn't. I did this when I'd been away on holiday for a month and came back...of course let him know during the day that you've got something planned for that night...I dressed up in a mini skirt, high heels, pigtails and a white blouse, tied him to the bed, sat on top of him and poured water all over my top, and had a bunch of stuff planned that I then did to him...hope that helps!
2007-02-26 04:37:53 · answer #3 · answered by heartbreaker 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah, if u want to spice up your life with your hubby it's time to get a new one
2007-02-26 03:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Learn new techniques.
2007-02-26 04:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋