Should i do it or not?
i met a guy for 3 times. he is nice and i think he likes me. he sometimes invited me for coffee or movie.
last week, when i called him, he let me know that he was on business in another city for 2 weeks and he would call me when he is back to the city.
besides, during 2 weeks on business, he did not contact me at all. Why is that?
what should i do now:
- just wait. if he doesnt call after 2 weeks, then leave him alone
- call him if he doesnt call
- send him text message if he doesnt call
p.s: he is a foreigner living in my city
2007-02-25 19:10:13 · 8 answers · asked by espiritgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just send him a text and leave it at that, if you get no response it's his loss.
2007-02-25 19:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by mizz.squitz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is away on business. He probably needs to focus on that while he is away. I wouldn't have a problem with him not calling you while he is on business. If you had a more long term relationship, I would expect a call, but it is a dating relationship and too soon to be concerned.
I would certainly call him when he is back if you don't hear from him. Don't take him not contacting you as a big deal. If nothing happens after you call him if that is what you decide to do, be glad that you didn't invest more time. Honestly though, I would not worry about it. He told you that he likes you. You like him. There is nothing wrong with some space in the beginning of a dating relationship. Heck there is nothing wrong with space period. Don't read negatives into this.
2007-02-25 19:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go with option 1; Just wait. if he doesnt call after 2 weeks, then leave him alone
2007-02-25 19:21:33 · answer #3 · answered by Nice Conv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him to call. If he doesn't, then it means he wants to move on. If the break comes after just 3 meetings, it's good. It won't hurt nobody. Having said that, if you have grown fond of him, then call him if he does not call and take it from there. If he avoids you, you have your answer - you have to move on.
2007-02-25 19:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by fitasfiddle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Just wait for him to call you again. That sounds hard, but it is the best test of his emotions.
2007-02-25 20:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
proceed with extreme caution. this is pointing to disaster already. if he hasn't called you in two weeks, there could be other reasons but to me it looks like he may have somebody else. i would forget about him for now. if he calls soon, then i would again be very cautious
2007-02-25 19:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by BOB H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
julia, i really dont think he is going to call,cause to be honest maybe he does that at all the cities he visits, so if i were u i wouldnt even bother calling him!
2007-02-25 19:17:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One has to learn to take hints to avoid being insulted in future.
2007-02-25 20:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋