People say that communictaion is the key for a good and healthy married life. But if communictaion itself becomes a problem then and the other person never understand it leads to another issue....its very diff isn't it?
2007-02-25 18:45:57 · 2 answers · asked by mangy20 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, if the other person doesnt understand what you are saying, you are either talking above that person and using words and phrases that does not compute, or he/she is on another higher intellectual level. When I did my welfare studies it was said that the problem doesnt lie with the person who doesnt understand what the other person is saying, the problem is with the person who is doing the communicating because they are not communicating in an easy to understand way. If you are communicating above the intellectual capacity of your partner, then you need to tone it down and put it into easy to understand words. Unless your partner is a total moron, he/she will understand what you are trying to communicate if you put it in easier to understand words. Get down or up to his/her level and then maybe they will understand.
2007-02-25 19:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the solution is to communicate something to one another...always. if you stop talking and listening...yeah its a big problem. even saying hello to someone, how's your day? thats communicating. there are many ways to communicate. peace
2007-02-25 18:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋