im 15 should i give up on living?

Question

nothing is right i keep thinking things are gonna get better but nothing is. my like has been f-up for 2 years now. i feel like physically and mentally im giving up on life. i mean all my perants do is argue and fight it is affecting me mentally. and i wonna just give up on life. every day i feel like my body is getting weaker..... i cant handle to much more. i just need to know how to handle a situation like this without giving up......any advice please

i wish i could give more information but its too much too explain. so if you can please help me. * i will never hurt myself or kill myself** im just tired of living

i have no problems with my body. school has alot of pressure but nothing i cant handle. its just at home i have problems

Answer 1

I figure stuff going on with ur parents is the main thing thats affecting u. Dont let it. Everyone wants a happy family, no one will disagree with me on that, but we dont always get what we want. Ur only 15, I'm 18 btw :) U've got a long way to go, dreams to fufill.

Set urself a goal, any goal... something that u want to achieve in life, work towards that! no matter what happens between ur parents, they'll nvr stop loving u. Dont give up on life.

Life's a blessing & its also a struggle. No one said it was gonna be easy. Take every problem u face as a challenge. It works! Dont worry abt stuff u cant handle. Take charge of things u can!

Do well at school, that will make ur parents happy :-)

God bless!

Answer 2

Talk to your parents and tell them how it's making you feel.
You need to get out of the house more often so you're not around all the negative energy. What else is wrong? School? Body issues?

Work on little problems, little goals and then before you know it you'll be living again. Write a list of what you really want to do in life and what you would do if you could do anything, then start working towards it.

What is it that bothers you about your parents fighting is it just the drama? Or do you think you're to blame or something? Do you just not like the fact that they have animosity towards eachother? Because a lot of the time parents fight (almost all do) and they still love eachother and want to try and make it work. Remember no one wants to fight.

What do you mean giving up if you don't mean killing yourself?

Answer 3

Hi, I'm 15 too. I've been there.....I tried it.....it didn't work though. But now I'm glad it didn't. I was 12, attempted suicide for what sounds like about the same reasons as you along with some other issues. It seems like there's no point in getting up when you're only going to fall back down. But...it's worth it eventually. To try to give me a reason to live, my friend once told me it's the little things that count, but I didn't understand because at the time, the little things didn't matter anymore. But now a few years later, I think I get what she meant. Because even though sometimes I feel like taking it all away, every moment I laugh with my friends, for real and not pretend, I'm glad to be alive even for that one minute. I stayed alive for my friends, because I know some of them wouldn't have made it without me, the same way I wouldn't have made it without them. Keep holding on, you'll make it through. Your strong enough, we're all strong enough. I used to think that strength meant never breaking down never falling apart. But being strong isn't all about standing tall through the storm, it's about being able to stand up after the storm has past. And it does pass. Hold on to everything that has any meaning at all to you. And in the future, there will always be moments you'll be glad you never let go.

Answer 4

I have been what you are going through, multiple times in my life.

As you get older, you will experience that life is not just a train track that you ride down until you get to the end. It is a roller coaster that has mountains to climb curves in the way, valleys to tumble into and eventually straight aways.

The things you are going through now will get better. You just can't see it right now because all you can see are the hills, valleys and curves of life in front of you.

You need to do the most you can for yourself (education, health friends and relationships that build you up). Think about the person you want to be. Determine what you need to get there. Discover what it takes to get you there.

You are 15 years old. High school will be over soon and you will need to figure out if you are going to college, to the work force, or both. (highly recommend putting college in there somewhere).

You need to find that part of yourself that drives you to your goal.

Most importantly, SET GOALS for yourself throughout your life. The biggest mistake I have made in my life is not having consistant goals to pursue.

You are not the only person feeling this way. People 2 and 3 times older than you have some of these same problems.

Find your self, push your self, believe in your self.

Answer 5

I was a mess at your age. That was the hardest year of my life. I abused myself so bad I still have deep regrets from that very year of my life. When I was a year or two older I talked about it with my friends and they all went through a lot of the same things so I think it must be a lot to do with hormones and other changes going on at your age. Your parents arent helping though. you should tell them how you feel. Writing always helps me tremendously. You need an outlet for all these feelings. Dont ever give up, though. Focus on all the good things in your life. Things always change. It will get better.

Let us not grow weary in well doing, for in due season we shall reap if we faint not. (galatians 6:9)

Be strong and courageous, and act; do not fear nor be dismayed, for the Lord God, my God is with you (1 Chronicles 28:20)

Answer 6

well im sure u will get alot of this, but im 29 and when i was ur age i went through rough stuff like that and felt the same way. But ur only 15 and havent experienced enough of life to really give up on anything, ur just starting ur life. Ur life really dont begin till ur 18 if u ask me. i mean u have 3 more years until u are ur own person. So then u can make ur life what u want it to be not what anybody else wants it to be so if ur still want to give up then u cant blame it on anyone else. Just keep yoru head up and think that in 3 years u can make ur life what u want it to be.

Answer 7

Here is the thing... your 15, you have held out 15 years through pain and struggle, and I know sometimes its hard and we don't want to hurt anymore. we don't want to be tired anymore... But in three years you will bee 18 and out of high school and the world will be at your finger tips... you can go to college, or join the military, you can work and get your own place to stay... you can fall in love and get married have kids and give them the life you wish you had! you have come to far to give up now... God loves you and he created you for a purpose even if you cannot see it now! keep holding on and pressing through knowing that one day while life will never be perfect it will be better, and you can help someone through what you are going through, in the mean time go to your counselor at school they are there for more than college advice and they can help you by giving you someone to talk to and a way to cope!

Answer 8

Life is all about the good as well as the bad. Definitely seek some counseling. Try talking to your parents about how their fights are effecting you. Just dont give up on yourself. If you think things wont improve at home, talk to a social worker about getting some help somehow. At 15, your life has barely begun. Just try to stay strong and keep going. If you have any siblings, talk to them and see how things are effecting them too. Try to come together as a family.

Stay strong, good luck, & best wishes.

Answer 9

I know that words sometimes are not enough! But, it's true that there will be better days for you! Try to do things that you like and if the situation is your house is not very good and it's difficult to fix it, try not to be a part of it!
Think of yourself! Don't pitty yourself, because sometimes that's the reason of our getting worse! Try liven up! When you feel exhaustion think that there are a lot of worse things! Nothing deserves your losing of mental or body health!
I wanna tell you so much, because I was in this place before! The only thing that helped me was starting believe in myself and in my strength! The problems are for people! Sometimes the power that we have inside us are bigger than we believe!
Good luck!!

Answer 10

Whatever you do don't give up on life. You really need to either talk to your parents about how their constant arguing is affecting you, maybe it will open their eyes on how this is affecting you. If you don't feel comfortable talking to them talk to another close relative maybe they will be able to help! You have a long and hopefully happy life ahead of you! I am glad to read that you aren't having self esteem issues or problems at school. Most teens that is the case! Don't give up know that your parents do love you and most likely as soon as they know how it is affecting you they will come up with a solution to their problems!