just now my freind told me that my ex boyfriend let his friend to read all of our mesagges in his mobile.initially i dont care about it,but suddenly i realise that our messages contains our DIRTY messages.i feel shamed and feel being annoyed.what should i do?i feel so shame to his friend...what should i do then??
2007-02-25 18:22:06 · 16 answers · asked by maysarah s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
u learn from that...of course ur shamed....now you know never to do that again or trust him again....it has happened to other people..u live and u learn
2007-02-25 18:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by T.T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once u have sent ur message, the message thus belongs to him. U should watch what u say & and understand anyone can intercept the message at any time. What if by chance his mother has his phone? He may be showing ur messages to his friends because he has some sense of pride. "My girl is a trip....Check dis out". He may not realize you are sensative about the issue. Let him know u wish for ur dirty phone talk to be kept private. If he ignores ur wish, u may need 2 stop sending those types of messages 2 him, becuase he doesn't respect u enough.
2007-02-25 18:33:44 · answer #2 · answered by ugcj10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See these things should always be expected because dating & flirting are not committments in life like how a marriage is and hence once they are broken some people use these letters & other materials as a sadistic tools for their own satisfaction. The best thing to do in such a case is simply ignore them because the more you feel upset about it ( thats what they want) the more they will try to shame you whereas if you neglet it then they just stop doing such things in future.
2007-02-25 18:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it and don't send these kind of messages anymore to anyone. Everyone knows the kind of things that go on between couples. Never leave evidence of anything anywhere.
2007-02-25 18:32:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry too much. Your BF's friends will think you are cool. Guys digs those dirty talks and messages. They'll be like sweetttttttttt...~~~~ awesome dude. You got some cool GF.
2007-02-25 18:27:06 · answer #5 · answered by kangjunhuck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry too much about it. you guys were in a relationship and it is normal to send eachother sexual messages. everyone will forget about the whole thing soon if you dont make a big deal out of it.
2007-02-25 18:24:45 · answer #6 · answered by rel541 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not much you can do. next time you have a boyfriend...will you be afraid to be sexy with him? dont let a stupid guy like that hurt you in such a way....that's a horrible sin to do what he did. very bad sin. you were being innocent and attentive to your guy. what they did is not ..its a shame what they did. peace
2007-02-25 18:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
delete delete delete. that's what guys do with their messages. but when we do, women assume we have something to hide. what are we to do?
Someone once said that its not what others say aboutyou, iots what you say of others that gives a picture of who you are. he's just proving to all that he cant keep secrets and respect privacy. leave him alone. Continue with your life. I'm not saying it'll be easy but just try.
I'm sorry.
2007-02-25 18:29:18 · answer #8 · answered by bestcollegechina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your ex friend shouldn't show others your massage
however if any one open this subject with you till that he should be sham because of reading other people secret
thank you for ask
2007-02-25 18:28:41 · answer #9 · answered by DREAM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell every girl is school that he is a dirt and what he did!...spread it everywhere!! and try to ruin his Rep so at least other girls know.
and..while you're at it..
take his e-mail address and post it on a free daily gay porn sites so he gets tons and tons of gay junk mail!!!
heh heh heh
eye for an eye...
uh..like in the bible..
2007-02-25 18:26:01 · answer #10 · answered by Derrick Zooolander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋