He pryed the door of my heart open and then he went back to his wife.....a marriage he said had been over for years.
2007-02-25 18:00:41 · 7 answers · asked by poetic_syncretic 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Don't you think I know that I did something stupid? Would it have been stupid if it didn't turn out this way and we had found the "love of a lifetime" in each other? That's what I honestly thought we had. His own family saw how miserable he had been with the wife and was happy to see us hit it off. Something about the 2 of us fit. Sometimes in life we make decisions/cross lines we think we would NEVER cross. He pryed the door of MY heart open by laying every fear I had to rest. I spose I was in a vulnorable place in my life. Some of you who are so quick to judge must not have ever been in a position where you did something wrong when you knew better, YET. Tell me which one of you who watch the show Greys Anatomy wasn't rooting for Meradith and McDreamy to somehow get back together? She may not have known that he was married but she knew something was misterious and "up" with him. I wrote this question because I was seeking a suggestion or two as to how to get past this horrible pain.
2007-02-26 05:46:15 · update #1
... real good advice was given me by a good friend when I went through a bad breakup...go out, get drunk, and get laid, and do not regret it ever!!! It helps relieve the tensions...
Oh and tell people like this one above me that is trying to berate you to go get F@#$ ed
2007-02-25 18:07:15 · answer #1 · answered by steven w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything happens for a reason. Although painful this is probably the best thing that could happen. Now is the time to take a deep breath and begin anew. Go out, meet new people by looking in the yellow pages and joining some clubs, take some courses, dance lessons, anything to get you out and meeting new people and men. Your pain will endure until there is another man there who will treat you like you the beautiful person you are. Get a notebook tomorrow and begin to write your progress beyond the emotional abuse you have been enduring. You will survive, and this time next year you will be with someone who cherishes you and you will wonder why you hurt so much from someone so not worthy of you. Best of luck, Jen.
2007-02-25 18:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he mean emotionally over for years or legally over for years. If he meant emotionally he was probably lying to you. He was enjoying the time he spent with you. If you were sleeping with a married man you asked for it. I am sorry but that is the truth. Either way you are not the first woman who has been through something like this. I know it hurts.... a lot. But he is really not worth the pain. Go ahead and grieve for a little while. Eat comfort food(not too much) and watch chick flicks. Not for too long though. Get out there and have fun. Do things to take your mind off of him. It will not be the last time that you get hurt. This is all part of living. But you can lessen your chances by staying away from any man who is still in or just out of a relationship. During this time they really don't know what they feel. Hang in there.
2007-02-25 18:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 12:27:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya mean to tell me that you fell for that old line, you must remember, the one thing that you will never be to him is NEW, and soon he'll be out there putting his banana in some one elses fruit basket, move on honey, there are lots of NICE married men out there.
2007-02-25 21:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by Billie R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out to you, there is nothing that you dont know already that can be said to make your pain any easier. Ride it out, its all you can do. Remember : Everything is as it should be.
2007-02-25 18:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stupid. if he was cheating on his wife, either with you or with anybody else..he is still a cheater. so if he lied and snuck around on his wife, what made you think he had developed any sense of honor or decency to where he wouldn't use you and lie to you?
2007-02-25 18:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by dances with cats 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋