My boyfriend hates wearing condoms?

Question

My boyfriend hates wearing condoms during sex because he can't feel any sensation when we have sex wearing them. I am not ready to go on any hormonal birth control pills.. cause i am extremely sensitive to all medicines.. so i am afraid.
so i want to know whats the best male condom out there.. that will allow him pleasure... or any other non-hormonal birth control ideas. thanks.

Answer 1

If he can't feel any sensation then he's using the wrong type of condom. That isn't a problem with all condoms. Perhaps he should try a larger or smaller condom, or an extra sensitive condom. Durex Extra Sensitive are good, as well as Lifestyles Ultra sensitive. It might also be an issue of size however, in which case he'll want to try Durex Maximum (larger condom) or Durex Enhanced Pleasure (smaller condom). Lastly, it might also be an issue of lubrication, so you might want to try that as well.

Answer 2

Decreased sensation is a problem with all condoms- at least if they are thick enough to do the job they are expected to do. You can continue to try different brands to see what suits him best, but in the end it will probably come down to making a choice between risking parenthood and a little less sensation. So far as non-hormonal birth control, you can ask your gyn to fit you for a diaphram. In conscientious use, the risk of pregnancy is about the same for both the condom and diaphram. It has to be put in prior to sex, and has to be left in place for several hours afterwards, and you will have to use a spermicidal jelly along with it. It works as a barrier, in combination with the spermicide, and has a failure rate of about 10-15% if you look at straight statistics. I used one for years, as I can't take the pill- and none of my children were either surprises or accidents. You can also consider an IUD. None of these will protect you 100%, from either pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases, but they are more acceptable to the male partner than condoms usually are. Otherwise, the condom remains your best protection against parenthood. If you don't like these options, then the only choices you have are taking the chances of pregnancy or abstaining.

Answer 3

Yasmin has next to no side effects and I believe the lowest hormonal content of any birth control on the market. I've been taking it for almost a year and I wouldn't consider taking anything else. Birth control doesn't prevent STD's though, and condoms are a good backup measure. I don't know what your situation is, but if you're in a long term monogomous relationship, I would at least consider the possibility of relying on birth control alone. Going without a condom doesn't just feel better for they guy, either, ya know ;-)

Answer 4

When we still had to use condoms, my husband sometimes used these sheepskin condoms. I can't remember what they are called, but i want to say they were called Ramses. I know there is a reg. condom with that brand name, but you have to look for the "natural" or sheep skin ones. I looked at the website below.

The sheep skin ones don't really prevent disease. I can't remember if they have spermicide on them, but i would guess no. You could "inject" spermicide into yourself, but read on the box how the condom will react to spermicide. No good if it will disintegrate the condom.

Has been 10-20 years since we used these. They were more expensive than the regular ones, but my husband liked them because they really increased the sensation for him. I used a diaghram for about 14 years and never got preg. using it. But i did get preg. using a condom. So don't depend on them. It's possible that this particular one didn't have any spermicide. Don't remember. It worked out ok though. My 15 yr. old son is a great kid. Good luck.

Answer 5

If I was you I'd ask him to go with you to the health clinic to get checked out for std's before you take the protection away. Just in case. Nothing against you or him but do you know where he's been and if he's been there now so have you. And if you've been with someone else if they left you with anything your boyfriend could get it too. Then after that deside what would be a good birth control but the clinic would answer that question too.

Answer 6

A condom works best if your not ready to have kids or a std,If this was me I tell him sorry no glove no love and thats that.As a man I know it sucks there is no feeling what so ever but use the new condoms that are thiner and are made for him in mind. Just keep in mind they are thiner so nothing rough. Hope this helps you out .

Answer 7

I agree with betsy on this one to go to a clinic and get tested before ever thinking of doing it without a condom with any one for your safety and theirs. Do yourself a favor and research condoms on how they are a lie and you can still get all kinds of stds even if you use them. Abstanace is the only 100% safe way and unwanted pregnancy free. God designed you to have sex only with the person he created for you. If this guy cant respect the fact that you are trying to be responsible and use a condom. He might be a selfish and if so ditch him and wait on the one the Lord is preparing for you that will be with you for eternity.

Answer 8

best male condoms;-
pleasure plus,crown,inspiral,beyond seven,life styles dual pleasure, trojan supra condom.
rest if ur boyfrnd hates wearing them, then u shoud use some safety means like itra-uterine devices. but protection is the must.pills denitely have side-effects ,so avoid them.
u hav to convince ur boyfrnd coz i think condom is the best bith control device

Answer 9

whatever you do, don't have sex without a condom. He should accept the way you feel about pills and where a condom, if not then..............its up to you!

Answer 10

tell him that it will be worse if ur preggers cuz u wont have sex at all