2007-02-25 17:27:36 · 9 answers · asked by kangjunhuck 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Give her as much support as you can and listen to her when she needs to vent. When she does come home, try to take her mind off of work. Maybe your gf should think about finding another job. A job that is causing her to be depressed and so stressed out is going to start wearing her down and could start to cause medical problems. Even if she has to take a pay cut, peace of mind, less stress and alleviating her depression would certainly be worth it.
2007-02-25 17:44:10 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is depressed with her job, do ur best to help her and motivate her to find another job where she'd be happy. Other wise she might be depressed. Take this seriously and stick with her all the way through. Depression is a serious condition, one that I went through. She should seek medical help and see a therapist. Good luck and hope she feels better soon dude.
2007-02-25 17:45:04 · answer #2 · answered by Gator21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For two years I worked with a group of women who were very conservative and religious. I am neither. It was horrible. They did not even want to talk to me. They were often very unkind. When I had an opportunity to work in the same building but around a different group of people I loved it. She needs to try to find another job.
2007-02-25 17:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Encourage her to change her job. She needs to feel empowered. Being depressed about this situation means she feels helpless. There is always a door. The two of you should brainstorm to find that door. Where there are options, there is power.
2007-02-25 17:36:16 · answer #4 · answered by here_nor_there 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instill a different perspective by sharing and reinforcing her worth. We must approach a job with a positive attitude. Our gratitude empowers us to be focused and not be moved by negativity. If you are part of her support system, it should reflect in her attitude through out her day.
2007-02-25 17:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by yp_vicki_nashville 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her to try something new, something that will take her mind off of her job. Go to the gym witrh her, (drag her if you have to) take her someplace busy, where she will have to think about something other than work. Find her a new hobby.
Good Luck
2007-02-25 17:39:41 · answer #6 · answered by Jolly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help her find a new job. If that's not an option, give her a nice little vacation (even if just for the weekend) where you can go somewhere nice and new.... somewhere she won't have to think about her job.
2007-02-25 17:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by Wildernessguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there. There's nothing you can do. If it's really the work environment, she should quit. In my girlfriends case, it wasn't really the work, it was depression.
2007-02-25 17:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by Uncle Pennybags 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot do anything about it... But you could ask her what she can do, What she is willing to do to alleviate her situation. She has the power to make herself happy.
2007-02-25 17:45:50 · answer #9 · answered by MissTaray 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋