He never fails to surprise me with something new and more profoundly hurtful. I think it's his hobby.
2007-02-25 17:23:08 · 12 answers · asked by Destiny 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
F...I hear you, I think we are both on opposite sides of the spectrum, at this point.. I could only wish he would just ignore me.....but, I know how being ignored is just as painful. ~Destiny
2007-02-25 18:09:36 · update #1
Oh honey, I know the feeling...
Refuse to answer his phone or speak to me via email or text. Totally ignoring someone is far worse than any fight or anything else... it hurts so much... its the cruellest thing, the ultimate insult...
Ignoring my text "Please tell me u love me." things like that.
Destiny, Your man sounds a little nuts, won't leave u alone? But at least he loves you, even if his manifestation of it is warped and causing you pain. My man is ripping my heart out; being or feeling unloved is the worst pain in this world... I am literally praying for relief... I will include you in my prayers; I hope your situation straightens out too...
2007-02-25 17:59:38 · answer #1 · answered by F 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I broke my spine in a bad accident. When I finally was admitted to the hospital for the surgery my wife didn't come after the first day. I tried calling and calling with no answer at my home. They day I got out I took a cab home only to find a 10 page court order on the door saying I was kicked out for abusing my wife.
She had moved her boyfriend right on in there. All I got out of there was a duffel bag of my cloths.
Needless to say, They are no longer together LOL!!!
2007-02-25 17:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by Kill_Me_Now! 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Destiny, it doesn't matter what we have experienced your question pulls at my heart to tell you that you deserve better and should leave this guy before he gets violent and if he has already, you need to get out immediately--- call your local crisis center and get help immediately. The fact that he keeps escalating his abuse, whether it is verbal, mental or physical, it is ABUSE. Even your avatar name is designed to give you hope- Destiny--- it is NOT your destiny to stay with this loser-- no one and I mean NO ONE should stay married to someone that constantly keeps disappointing and angering you.....leave him..............and get a good lawyer ----don't let on that you're leaving until you see a good lawyer and get the wheels in motion- that way if you do have any money, he can't hide it where you can't have access to it.........good luck to you.........and Destiny--- your life will get better
2007-02-25 17:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by mac 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My Ex, beat me up in front of my kid with 18 beers in his system. I called the cops, did a 911 hang up. Took 6 cops to take him out of the house. I knew right then, I didn't want to spend another second, hour, day with him. Something just snapped. That was it. DONE.
He wanted more money to buy more beer. He had his fist to my face. That was over 3 years ago. I never looked back. I was with him on and off for 10 years.
He was a drug addict as well. I am not a drug addict, he threatened to kill me, if I ever tried the drugs he did, so I didn't bother trying them.
2007-02-25 17:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
My ex advised me the day while we married that we mandatory to get existence coverage on me! could no longer sleep after that, i'm now divorced...haha heavily, enable it flow and harm the replay! Love would not shop information of wrongs!
2016-09-29 22:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing my husband could do to me is leave me for another woman, cause I am disabled and unable to make money and pay my way in life...
I do get social security each month, but it is far from being enough to pay my way on everything I would owe on...
2007-02-25 17:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Huh! well today he showed the trash in the covers in an effort to clean house, the house looked imaculate when I came home but then tonight I found the trash in the kitchen cover! Arggg!
2007-02-25 17:28:19 · answer #7 · answered by Queen Kitty 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you need a less abusive spouse. Every relationship has ups and downs but if one makes it his hobby to be hurtful, perhaps you should be thinking of getting out ....good luck
2007-02-25 17:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Smoothie, aka Mr. SmartAss 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
he told me that if i dont have any more kids he will divorce me, he has told me if i ever get fat he will divorce me, i tell him im miserable and i want to kill myself, he tells me "go ahead" or "im sick of hearing you ***** about that" but when im on my way out the door, he begs me not to leave and like an idiot i stay
2007-02-25 17:30:30 · answer #9 · answered by Blenderhead 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
the worst thing he could have done to me was to be unfaithful and lie to me.
2007-02-25 17:42:19 · answer #10 · answered by autumn lover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋