My boyfriend and I were "fooling" around and I think he either came in me or on me but we are not sure. We are now freaking out worried that I may be pregnant but of course we don't know b/c my period is irregular and changes every month. The last time I had my period was Feb. 7th and I don't know what we should do. All we know is that the condom was on my bed and it had a little bit of *** in it but we don't know if it came in me. Please help because I am freaking out...
2007-02-25 17:14:13 · 7 answers · asked by Babygurl 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'm sorry for your predicament but this is one more reason why it is important to wait till you are married and in a secure relationship before you go "fooling around".
I bet this was all his idea knowing how some of the guys I work with are. I hear them talking.
Okay, go get a pregnancy test at the drug store and see what you get. If it shows neggo preggo, you can stop freaking out. But, have you learned anything from this? You better stop "fooling around" or eventually you WILL Be pregnant and then what? Will this guy stick with you or be gone like a big bird?
Too many guys who AREN'T willing to wait for marriage are just using the girls they are with cuz they are young and horny and STUPID. If he knew what he was doing the condom would have been where it was supposed to be. In the future I hope the condom stays in his pocket and you stay OFF THE BED. Several people I work with had daughters get pregnant before marriage and it totally screwed up their lives.
IN fairness to you, the tv and movies show so much sex that it is no wonder people like you get tricked into thinking it is NORMAL to "fool around" before marriage. Take it from me, it causes nothing but trouble. Pregnancies, unwanted babies, gonnorhea, aids, HPV, a bunch more I can't think of right now.
The wise thing for you to do would be to tell your "boyfriend", NO MORE SEX. Start acting like a lady and the boys/men will have a lot more respect for you. If your "boyfriend" leaves you than he was just using you like I said and didn't care one bit about YOU the person.
Good luck with this, hope it turns out okay...
2007-02-25 17:51:02 · answer #1 · answered by Harley Charley 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
How old are you?
Well it really depends on if you want a child right now or not.
If you Don't want to have a child right now, I would go to Planned Parent Hood (you don't need a parent with you to go there) or you can see your doctor and ask about The Morning After Pill. I Think you can take this up to two or three weeks after having unprotected intercourse. (I am not really sure on the time limit that you can take it because it has been over 6 years since I've had to use one) But If you just want to be on the safe side.You can take this even if you are not sure about if any sperm got into you and
I have been told that It is basically a very high dose of birth control to make sure that you don't get pregnant however it doesn't always work but that is rare. but don't in any means take lots of birth control because of over dosing on accident.
What ever you decide to do just make sure in the future you be more careful, so mishaps won't happen again until you are fully prepared to take care of things.
Good Luck to you
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2007-02-25 17:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a preg test. There are some that will detect even before you miss your period. However, the risk of false negatives is pretty high on those, so take another if you miss your next period.
2007-02-25 17:19:14 · answer #3 · answered by thereligiousrightisneither 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing you can do but freak out until your next period is due or around 30 days pass, which ever comes first, and then take a pregnancy test until you have another period
2007-02-25 17:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by unimatrix_42 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
damn calm down. take a pregnancy test. wait for your period. you have no reason to freak out just yet if you dont know your pregnant... if you find out you are then you can freak out all you want.
2007-02-25 17:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to wait some time and try a pregnancy test.
But it is hard for someone with an irregular period to get pregnant that easy..
2007-02-25 17:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by meemo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u have to wait a couple weeks then take a test... a good one not one from the dollar store... or maybe go to see ur gyno
2007-03-01 16:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by jai1603 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋