here's the deal: we're not official yet but were always together, were always asking each other stuff like " how was your day and stuff like that. Thats kinda boring and useless. When i ask her stuff she doesnt say much stuff also. Its usually a one-liner. Any tips?
2007-02-25 17:01:43 · 8 answers · asked by peepintom15 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Ask her a question that needs more discussion. Maybe you can ask her some of the questions that are on here.
it is better to ask "what exactly is the problem with mrs. creepy's class?" Than; "do you like mrs. creepy's class?"
instead of "do you like going to the mall?" ask "what do like about going to the mall?"
Or, "let's play a game: list the 5 best bands and why you like them."
Things like that.
What is really fun if you go to a mall is to watch people and make up stories about them; like where they work or go to school. If they have a lot of friends and what their friends say about them.
It can be a fun way for people to open up to each other without being so scary for them.
2007-02-25 17:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out what she likes. Always ask girls questions and listen. Girls like that kinda stuff. Be that you two are in a place that are both comfortable talking about things.
2007-02-26 01:58:31 · answer #2 · answered by djsbabygirl2005 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask her questions about herself, some girls like to talk about themselves, but that would suck for you. OR you can find out her interests and take an iniciative in
2007-02-26 09:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by kameronzmom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I strongly recccommmmmend asking her which of Paul Oakenfold's gllobbal undergrounds she like best. If she says Oslo insttead of New York. Then start hitting her.
2007-02-26 03:05:13 · answer #4 · answered by Jaques S 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ask open ended questions...for ex: instead of "how was your day" try "what did you do today" that way she can't just say good or fine...and it will open the door for deeper conversation. good luck.
2007-02-26 02:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by angie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about what is on the news like the war on Iraq or something or the snow in the east.
2007-02-26 01:09:24 · answer #6 · answered by speedy >>> 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Play 21 questions with her then not only will you get to know her more, but she will get to know you more also.
2007-02-26 01:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by Chusa_Loca 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, start surfing the net and get interest things to talk.
2007-02-26 06:58:24 · answer #8 · answered by Gena 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋