boyfriend problem?

Question

i asked before what i should do about my boyfriend. who does not like traveling but i do and i am sick of not traveling because i have to travel to see my family and we broke up before because he got sick of me traveling so about a couple of months later i returned and stoped traveling so we could give it another go anyway so i asked him a few minutes ago if he would travel with me but he said no because he is close to his family and doesn't want to travel. so now i am sitting here wondering what to do

i am sorry to say i can not sit down and pray because i am not a christian and i do not belive in praying

my family would travel but they can not afford it where as i can and also by dad has cancer so t would be harder for them to travel and that is why i want to see them

Answer 1

Hi Katey g,

I'm sorry to hear about your delema, however deep inside you know what you must do. Follow your heart on this one. Unless he is willing to change, he is not someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. Just imagine for a second how much your situtation would be strained if he was your husband. It would not be a heathly relationship.

I see you as a smart woman who knows what she is going to have to do again. Just do it as kindly as possible and this time don't get back into a realtionship with him. It's o.k. to be friends with him as long as he is going to be of good moral support for you.

Answer 2

doing a lot of traveling can be quite expensive. have you and your boyfriend talked about traveling only on holidays. how often do you have to see your family? i understand that you want to see family but keep in mind that being out on your own and making your own decisions is part of being a adult. if he isn't mistreating you and his family has grown to you than you are cool. but if not move on. i think sometimes we have to create our on environment and not let our family choose our future. besides if your family wants to see you they will come check on you to make sure you are alright. pray bout it and it will work out.

Answer 3

well u told him you wouldnt travel break up with him if u like traveling and he dosnt then it'll just screw up ur realtionship in the future

Answer 4

if you like travelling, then he shouldn't hold you back. why? coz it's about you, he has to accept you coz of what you are. it's a matter of understanding. you can't keep on sacrificing everytime....Idon't like rice, my girlfriend does, does it mean she'll never eat what she likes? i've got to be flexible!

Answer 5

I would move closer to a love 1 if I truly loved her & then she would put her mind at rest & know 100% that i was not cheating on her wat so ever

Answer 6

pray about it