dicreet adventures. what would you do if you where in my shoes?
2007-02-25 16:47:32 · 21 answers · asked by Crissy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he knows that i know. and hasnt even came to me and said anything or admitted to anything. This isnt the first time. He was also signed up for Find a mate. He told me he was looking to see if he could find someone better than me.
2007-02-25 16:58:55 · update #1
i already know what this site is. its a place where married people can go to have affairs.
2007-02-25 17:01:16 · update #2
Alright his behaviour is appaling.... However tell me something - if he has done this before and keeps doing it over and over again, and still tells you that he is looking for someone better than you ... AND you know about it all - then what the hell are you still doing there? Do you not have enough self-worth to realize to get the f@uck out? The problem here is not him (although he does sound like a pig), the problem is you not believing that you are worthy enough to have someone who loves only you completely.
2007-02-25 17:08:34 · answer #1 · answered by Aneska G 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you deserve better. No one should have to put up with that kind of thing. If I had a husband that told me he was looking to see if he could find somebody better I'd tell him to go ahead but that I wasn't going to be around after he looked. I know you can find somebody better than him. I'm not married but I have seen people in good and bad marriages and what he is doing is about as bad as you can get. Don't sell yourself short just because he does.
GOOD LUCK
2007-02-26 01:08:58 · answer #2 · answered by C T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People. Get F'ing Real!! Did only WOMEN answer this question? Men get bored and they sit at home wondering when you are coming back from "shopping with friends" or "working late" or whatever and we surf the net. Find a Friend and that kind of service is advertised everywhere! And YES, I have signed up for many and I have even submitted a photo just to see if I'd get a response. I got many! Great! My ego was boosted after my wife generally ignored me for months...AND..I never tried to hook up once! Most of you women who answered this question are retarded. Where were you when he was SIGNING UP? OUT with "some friends"? Quit busting his balls just because you are paranoid and keep checking the history files.
2007-02-26 02:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by jack h 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie pls think of your psychological wellbeing and leave him a lawyer should be able to help you get what you deserve. And one more thing, never stay in a relationship with someone who dosen't appreciate your worth. It always ends badly, not too mention you deserve better
2007-02-26 01:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by ziska 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go fine out what the site is about. dicreet adventures.and then talk to him and see what making him go in there.and .no i would not like to be in your shoes ......good luck
2007-02-26 00:59:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow that's bad. Talk to him about it. He's obviously having fantasies that he doesn't want you to know about. I don't know how good your sex life is but maybe he thinks it's not good enough. Try to do something exciting and new for him.
Edit:
After reading your additional details your husband sounds like a jerk. Divorce him. You don't want to spend the rest of your marriage in tears over this idiot. You deserve better.
2007-02-26 00:51:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Join the site, find someone for you, meet him, make sure your husband knows..... just for fun. Then find a lawyer and divorce him.
2007-02-26 01:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by BED 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go on there also under a different name set up a fake great looking picture contact him set up a hotel room to meet him at when he gets there and he knocks on the door say come in im in the bathroom getting into something mor ecomftorbale in a disguised voic eof course some out of the bathroom and confront him
2007-02-26 00:52:37 · answer #8 · answered by Mark R 3 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Look up the site &see whats it about &what he is into, if its something im willing to do...
Surprise Surprise for him!!
If not, I'd drop the bom on his head, &see how he fumbles with it.
2007-02-26 00:56:06 · answer #9 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself the best lawyer in town and file for divorce. He's a loser.
2007-02-26 01:08:20 · answer #10 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋