I knew this German lady for more than two years... she lived in Germany and came to me here every other month... Stephanie was so emotional and caring.
Chrismas last year she started lying to me and I found out that she is betyaing me with another man there in Germany... Stephanie still in touch with me... last when she kied yet again and said she'd needed moeny for her health treatment.. only to find out that she wanted it to go on a holiday with her new boy friend!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-25 16:44:24 · 18 answers · asked by wild wadi 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Lying and cheating is not gender specific. The fact that you know this woman is a cheat yet still communicate with her says more about your issues than hers. Why are you still so interested in someone who has clearly demonstrated that she's taking you for a ride? Concern yourself with your own weaknesses instead of trying to make sense of hers.
2007-02-26 08:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by Rain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she lives in Germany and sees you every other month, then she may not consider herself your partner. Each person in a relationship sees it differently. You were clearly more committed than her. To you, she was your partner. To her, you were "the other man".
Live and learn, be a bit poorer , and wiser, next time round.
2007-02-25 17:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by Labsci 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
For the same reason some men lie and cheat on their partners. It's not a gender thing, it's a people thing. Some have no morals and your Stephanie, along with my exhusband, is one of them.
2007-02-25 20:54:35 · answer #3 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hear.......the explanation why u did no longer be responsive to that your gf became into dishonest is via the fact she became into dishonest it is the completed element of no longer understanding. She's unlikely to assert to u 'i'm in simple terms going out for a f@#* be returned quickly!!!' And u sound very sexiest if it is wot u think of that one and all females are like......pass out on dates with diff females then come again n let us know your opinion then. human beings are the main hateful, stupid mammals in the international.....i assume ur question ought to be responded as...females have positioned up with ALOT of mens s@#t over an prolonged era of years so we are in simple terms attempting to get u returned!!!!
2016-10-02 00:12:37 · answer #4 · answered by alt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way you describe her is not as a girlfriend, but a sex buddy. The only thing she did wrong was try to deceive you out of extra money. Other than that, you should have known what to expect from someone that you use for sex.
2007-02-25 19:04:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry you are in pain. This "person" clearly did you wrong. I truly don't know what makes anyone cheat. If I were going to guess, the answer is selfishness. She cares more about her own happiness than yours. I know this hurts, but it is probably for the best.
2007-02-25 17:05:18 · answer #6 · answered by krazydoggarou 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because some women like some men take advantage and use kind and caring people......I am sorry that you were betrayed this way....one lesson I have learned is that when someone shows you who they really are....believe them.....unfortunately the internet can make it possible for people to deceive one another ........keep in mind though....that there are some wonderful people out there too.....
2007-02-26 02:49:36 · answer #7 · answered by Mum3grls 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
same reasons some men do, i suppose.
perhaps you thought the two of you were exclusive but you weren't? although, still, she shouldn't have lied for money, that's just slimey.
not all women manipulate and use. get a new girlfriend.
2007-02-26 03:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do some women lie and cheat on their partners? For the same reason men do. We are all human.
2007-02-25 20:42:34 · answer #9 · answered by Marianne M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Mating strategies at cross-purposes. Really.
2007-02-25 17:36:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋