i have this friend and she is really important to me. but sometimes when i tell her stuff, she sounds all boring and like who cares, but when she tells me things that r boring, i pretend that they r funny when they aren't. i would tell her my problems like she wants me to and she promised that she wouldn't get mad, but the last time i told her something she got mad. What should i do? whats the right thing to do? 'cause i know i have to tell. any good advice is really needed!!!
2007-02-25 16:29:35 · 5 answers · asked by smarthotchick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell her um..i need to talk 2 u and if ur my friend ull for give me ok tell her the truth and say im sorry but this is how i feel and let her talk about how she feels too
2007-02-25 16:37:01 · answer #1 · answered by dark and mysterious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the GOOD advice is that she's not really your friend, and is trying to use you for her own selfish purposes. this is the beginning of a manipulative relationship, if you don't end it now. but do you really want to hear that?
you're worth more to the world than that. find some genuinely good people to be your friends. though they're far and few between, I promise its worth it
2007-02-26 00:34:42 · answer #2 · answered by Xanther 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, youshould try 1 of these 2 things...
Put it to your friend just as you have writen it here, or send a copy of "What is YOUR answer" to I have this friend....?
People who claim to be friends, or want you as a friend, expect their friends to tell them when they have messed up, done something wonderful, or are about to make a big mistake.
That's what friends are for. To take care of you, and for you to watch over them.
2007-02-26 00:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by Dante_of_Phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to say this but she not a friend. she only with you when
it for her and not you. time to find a new friend.
2007-02-26 00:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her about it whenever my friend Kellie dose that i ignore her and have her come back to me
2007-02-26 01:00:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋