Has anyone ever went on a break from their spouse?

Question

Did anyone ever break up with their girl for a break to sort of their feelings and then come back? I'm pregnant and I think my ex is really scared of the responsibilty..He told me that we just can't work out. He has to clear his head..yet he calls all the time..I know we had our problems in our relationship..Has anyone went through this? Any men ever did this? We had a relationship of 7 years..Since we were 17..I don't know if the baby scared him or what. His dad put him up to moving in with him in another state to take a job. I am concentrated on my baby but I can't help but be emotional over this. 7 years is hard to just forget.

Answer 1

Oh yeah, this is the man you want to spend the rest of your life with. Look, I have never wanted nor needed a break from any relationship, and anyone that does (or says they do) usually has something else going on that you don't know about. Kick the chump to the curb and find a real man that wants to be with you and is not afraid of the responsibility if being a father. And did I hear you correctly, is he moving to another state? With you pregnant? And you're what 24 now? How dare he leave you or even CONSIDER leaving you at a time like this. You deserve WAY better that what he's giving you, and so does your child. Is that the kind of man you want helping to raise your child? But then again, by the sound of it, he won't be around to help. I'm sorry to be so blunt, but guys like that really tick me off. If you need someone just to talk to, feel free to e-mail me.

Answer 2

I understand that this could be very hard for you but you have to stop stressing yourself over this mess with him and concentrate on having a healthy baby. Yes you know that a man is needed in your child's life but I have been through something like this yet different.
My husband and I newly started dating and just when we got serious he told me hey I was on a break with my ex girl and he never told her they broke up. Thinking that she got the message seeing that she hadn't received or gave a call further more for seeing each other for almost six months. For his birthday we planned something and we were ready to go out and he came to see me at work and she was with him. I did't know who she was and after I looked at the way she was talking to one of my co- workers (she worked in my building before) she was acting a bit strange. He pulled me aside and explained then he didn;t know what to do when guilt over powered him. He was in two relationships at once! He broke it off with her the next day and we were on a break because I wanted him to know that he really loved me. I took a two week break and I needed to ensure that this was the guy for me. He was and still is. I was threatened by her and now its okay because I know that my husband isn't into crap like that.
But with that situation as in your boyfriend leaving you because you are pregnant damn he would never do that to me...

Answer 3

Very hardly, and we negotiate. besides, I by no skill promise something without justification, and am waiting to withdraw a promise if that isn't any longer justified. on the different hand the 1st Mate now and back asks me to no longer be so considerate of my ex-spouse, nevertheless all i'm is polite. I element out that at an analogous time as she is a soreness interior the butt, she is the mum of my little ones, and shared an significant area of my existence - and any attention I provide her is in hassle-free terms a guaranty of the glory I provide to others who've been significant in my existence. So that's a surety of what's using the 1st Mate herself. regrettably, the 1st Mate isn't sturdy on compassion for everybody who she feels has harm one in each of her kittens. yet this kitten can seem after itself.

Answer 4

Tell him it's okey to be scared because you are too, and then tell him your both going to be parents and that the baby needs both of you even if you don't have a marriage thing going.