His sister has remained friends with the ex wife and that circle is not very inviting to dating my boyfriend.Should I attend?The breakup was bitter between them and it's been about seven months from the divorce.My boyfriend's mother welcomes me with open arms but not the sister or the ex for that matter.
2007-02-25 16:21:56 · 9 answers · asked by -K- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thats the sisters problem, she can get over it... ex wife... shes an ex for a reason... u arent there to make friends with her.
if mom likes you ...then you are golden... dont stress... all that matters is that you and your boyfreind care about each other.
2007-02-25 16:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by Cyndi s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should make the mother a part of that circle so I really think that you should keep that woman happy! Think you should attend and show them that you are the woman and there is nothing that they could do to break your stride baby. Look damn good so that he would be looking at you at all times as well look good to the fact that his mother would also welcome and complement your look. Make her look old and shabby she wouldn't even feel like she could stand up to you. Stand out in a really nice eye catching color that takes your complexion to the max and wear something that is flirty but presentable and cute. The next step is the way that you carry yourself! very proud and socialize a whole lot with the family and smile a lot, be very kind and win their favor she wouldn't have a chance in hell making you feel uncomfortable or misplaced. Implant yourself in this family and trust me everything would be just fine!
2007-02-25 16:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it this way: if you feel that your relationship is serious and has a long-term potential - you will have to deal with his relatives in some way, shape or form; you can't be avoiding them forever. If you are invited - go.
If, however, you consider this a temporary arrangement - it doesn't really matter if you go or not, so just do whatever you want.
2007-02-25 16:48:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't go, you show the sister and the ex that they have control over you and a small bit of control over your relationship. I'd go, you were invited. Let us know how things go
2007-02-25 16:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by Steel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go, the sister and ex need to get a life and stop worrying about who is dating who.
2007-02-25 16:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a public place, yes go, just be yourself, and dont let them phase u .. if u hide now, u'll always be hiding and if u and ur bf are going to have a lasting relationship u need to not cower to them.. so yes show up.. u were invited so ur not intruding..
2007-02-27 06:04:22 · answer #6 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't show up because divorce was 7 months ago...too soon, believe me plus they need time to accept you and showing up in a family event is TOO MUCH. I wouldn't show up for my mental health and because going to a family thing is rushing things, they need time so you do.
2007-02-25 16:26:21 · answer #7 · answered by C6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go, the ex has probably already been informed that you are going. if she tries to start anything make it clear to her that you are not there for her, but for the baptism, and if she has something to say to you, she can find out your phone number and talk to you in confidence.
2007-02-25 17:18:50 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go if you want to go, just be prepared 4 a fight.
2007-02-25 16:49:00 · answer #9 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋