i think i may be gay but i am married to a great guy, and i dont know what to do..im so confused and feel horrible if i am gay for hurting my husband..i dont know what to do
2007-02-25 16:21:50 · 9 answers · asked by Leigh Ann 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you should be honest with yourself and with him. If you love him but are not in love with him do you think your marriage will be what either of you deserve? He will be hurt but depending on the type of guy he is or if he is homophobic he will get over it eventually and then who know...
I hope things work out for you.
2007-02-25 17:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by C T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its a dilemma,u think??? or confirmed it???have u been into gay act with someone ,or in love with same sex,if so its time to face the hard part u have to build things on trust ,dont ruin your life in doubts,if u want to go in this road open up and tell him.
2007-02-25 16:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by reifguy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are just going through a faze....everyone is curious once in a while. you should ask yourself MANY questions before you jump to conclusions.... you might be BI? or your just curious? if you say your "gay", that means you have NO attraction to the male sex, right? talk to him, maybe your just in need of a one time encounter, maybe a threesome..you never know if he might dig it....but communication is the key.
2007-02-25 17:36:22 · answer #3 · answered by samantha m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to get him to have a 3 some
im married and bi we have 3 somes all the time but then again he might not be up for it
2007-02-25 17:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing you can do is give it plenty of time before you make a quick decision...You say you think you are gay..Make sure you know for sure before you hurt anyone!
2007-02-25 16:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by LanternPrime 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him you woud stay because it would be just like you could be attracted to someone else but respect your virtues and marriage and would stay because you also love your husband.
2007-02-25 16:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seek help from consellers.
2007-02-25 16:26:03 · answer #7 · answered by ButterMilkQueso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a threesome and see how you like it
2007-02-25 16:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by joe h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forsake ALL others...
2007-02-25 17:31:34 · answer #9 · answered by j_mang 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋