Do you get insecure if they don't reciprocate or do you just say it because you like to?
2007-02-25 16:18:12 · 18 answers · asked by Nina 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Everyone loves to hear the words "I love you" and I think sometimes it just become a habit to say, "I love you, too".
Sometimes, at the particular time someone says those words to me I really don't feel like saying them because at that moment love is not an emotion I am feeling for them.
But, sometimes I say it anyway (even though I really do not want to) to keep from hurting their feelings or to keep from starting another argument. You know what I mean?
2007-02-25 16:26:20 · answer #1 · answered by Mee-Maw 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope to hear "I love you" if I tell someone. I don't get insecure if they don't reciprocate. I say it because I mean it.
2007-02-26 00:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by K 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I only say it to people I truly love, they don't have to reciprocate, I just want them to know they are loved.
2007-02-26 00:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by Gianna M 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No I don't get insescure if they don't say it back. To me, its like the biggest thing ever...and when I say it, I mean it from the bottom of my heart....and whomever I say *I love you* to, if they don't say it back to me....then they're not meant to love me....when and if they are, then they'll say it to me...
I am usually the first one to say those three words to someone and I can only think of one time, they weren't said back to me....it wasn't meant to be and I accepted that :)
2007-02-26 00:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by L ♥ L ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get worried if they don't say they love me back. I think love should be a mutual feeling.
2007-02-26 00:24:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
After the first few dozen times it doesn't seem to make as much difference.
But the FIRST time is a real nail biter. Isn't it?
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2007-02-26 00:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hmm, no actually, i usually wait for them to say it first an by then we are such gud friends anyway, if i say " i love u too in a nonromantic way" they will just say " i guess i will have to steal u and force u to be my husband then!!!" and we laugh and its all fun, aw now i miss my friends lol â¥
2007-02-26 00:24:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would. When I say it to anyone, I think they should say it back. (Except if they dont love me, then I probably wouldn't say it to them either)
2007-02-26 12:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by Lolipop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say it because I like to, and like to let my husband (for example) to know he is loved.
We both come from very rough backgrounds, with abusive parents, who never told us that they love us.
2007-02-26 00:24:32 · answer #9 · answered by Lauran B. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i used to do that when i was wayyy younger but my boyfriend told me he loved me and i told him i cant say that becasue i dont love you i felt HORRIBLE he was sad then he broke up with me like the next day
2007-02-26 00:25:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋