She had many sexual relationship in past and it kills me that she is only girl i had sex with i was virgin before i met her , i dont wanna hang up with her whole of my life, while other have had fun with her and walk away.
I plan to marry her so that i can have a green card and finally leave her when i become citizen of usa, i will take care of kid thereafter and be with someone nice.
Am i doing the right thing please suggest me something, i wanna be equal in relationship, i wanna have as many relationship as she had in her past, i cannot accept her like that,...
2007-02-25 16:00:16 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're a jack_ss!
2007-02-25 16:03:41 · answer #1 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Man, you really have your hands full, baby on the way,girl friend your into just having sex with, marriage. You really are a winner- I'll marry her for the green-card and support the kid. Her past is NONE of your business PERIOD. You want suggestions?\-try growing up, you knew what you were doing when you slept with her and what the consequences could be now you want to play the judge on her part. Sorry that excuse went out in a long time ago. I can only hope she does not marry you and slaps you with a paternity suit for support- that just how its done in the good old USA. just for the record- i am glad everyone here thinks the same thing- your- a - a s s w h o l e.
2007-02-25 16:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just by the way - You are probably the biggest *** I have ever had the displeasure of coming accross.
If you cannot accept her the way she is... you do not deserve her! Don't you get it, if you cannot accept her now, you will never be able to. You will never be able to accept anyone then, not even someone who is a virgin - you will ALWAYS find something inferior in everyone you go out with. Who the hell do you think you are making her pregnant but not wanting her as the mother of your children?????? What did you think were going to happen when she was good enough to have unprotected sex with, smartass?
You actually make me sick. Her past has absolutely nothing to do with who she is. Have you really NEVER EVER done anything to be ashamed of? Never sinned? Never sweared? etc. So what gives you the right to judge her for her past mistakes? U know, I have had one hell of a past myself, but when I met my husband, he has only ever been with one other girl (his ex-wife). My past never mattered to him... he treats me like I am the only women in the world.
You just might be screwing with the best thing that ever happened to you. And I truly hope you loose this girl and end up miserable, alone and not a citizen of the usa. You do not deserve to bring a child into this world you idiot.
2007-02-25 16:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by Aneska G 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
She was good enough to sleep with, but she's not good enough to be the mother of your child? You should have thought about that a long time ago! It's just as much your fault as it is hers. You know about protection, no matter where you're from! You were there for a "piece", just like all the other guys, you just got caught! I don't feel sorry for men like you! And you're boasting about marrying her so you can get your green card and become a citizen of the U.S? Is that the way you portray America? I come from a family that EARNED their right to be in America, by going to school and learning all the political things that you agree to abide by and live by, not by getting someone pregnant just to get their green card! You make me sick! You're a loser!
2007-02-25 16:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have thought about that before you had sex with her. I love how you make it sound like a storybook. You laid down with her and now you will have to pay the consequences. Why in the first place would you mess around with her knowing she had multiple sexual partners in the past? And why does that even matter now anyway? Is she faithful to you? That should be all that matters. If you are having a baby with her, it is your responsibility to take care of that baby even if you don't love her. Why would you want to have as many relationships as she did in the past? That makes absolutely no sense whatsoever. Think about what you are saying.....smh
2007-02-25 16:10:02 · answer #5 · answered by samantha 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
YOU have issues my friend. Don't marry her just to be a citizen of USA. You aren't doing the right thing and theres no one who has an "equal" relationship, who cares what she did in past, she didnt know you at that time, you shouldn't of had sex with her then. You BETTER take care of that kid.
2007-02-25 16:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you should have made her to understand that and protect yourself as@wipe. I dislike jerks like you. You are such an idiot!
I think that you are a selfish pig and you deserved to be dumped by her. What does her past have to do with her having a baby? If she is a changed person now and would improve in the future then its going to be fine. As well who are you to judge anyone? Only fools as you have already proven yourself to be as well as a coward judge people. They judge because they want to say to themselve or others that the person is worst than they are. Putting a spot light on the person's mistakes in life!
Think you need to f#$king grow up! As@wipe!
2007-02-25 16:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are NOT doing the right thing!!!
1-You have been using her just to get citizenship
2- If you can't accept her as mother of your kid you should never have had sex with her in the first place!
2007-02-25 16:12:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is she willing to make a commitment to you? You may not want to accept her because of her past but, is she carrying your baby? Is the only reason that you don't want to be with her in marriage, is the fact that she has been with other men?
If the child is yours, then you owe it to the baby to be a father. If this girl wants to be with you, you must forgive her past. She has made mistakes. We all do even if they are different kinds of mistakes. You did wrong by having sex with someone that you were not married to also.
2007-02-25 16:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by 4HIM- Christians love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your somewhat of a hypocrite aren't u, wanting the same thing in relationships as she has had? just think it is a cop out and that u only got with her for the green card anyway. this is not about her past, its about u, and what u are thinking. if it is not right for her to have had all of those relationships why is it OK with u to have them? isn't this a double standard. think u just don't really want to settle down and have been deceiving her into believing u love her, u are a user and a looser.
2007-02-26 01:41:31 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not doing the right thing. Don't marry her then leave her. Leave her NOW. My advice for her would be to get a court-ordered support agreement so you will have to support the child, OR, better all around, contact an adoption agency and place the child in a loving adoptive home. My advice for you is go back to your native country and check into a mental hospital.
2007-02-25 16:11:25 · answer #11 · answered by Wise Advice 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋