2007-02-25 15:55:39 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are obviously young if you are considering running away. You don't have to continue to date her, but you do have a financial and personal responsibility to your unborn child. Kids need to have their parents in their lives, especially their dads. You are not prepared for this, but believe me, YOU don't have to know anything to love another person. Like I said - you don't have to be with the mother, but you have to be there for the baby.
2007-02-25 15:59:17 · answer #1 · answered by TwinkaTee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I got pregnant when I was 18 and had a baby at 19. I thought the guy loved me and he said "Don't worry I will take care of everything." He denied being the father and denied my son until he got 16 then he wanted to be his Dad but it was too late. You may not can be with her but you need to stand up and be a man and take the responsibility of your child. You were man enough to get her pregnant and yes I know that it takes two. Don't run away that will not solve anything. She can have a dna test run and yes if you are the father she can force you to pay child support.
2007-02-25 16:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop being a selfish *** whole and man up. The bottom line is you are not going through hormonal issues, nor are you trying to grown into a beautiful child, yet all you can do is worry about your damn self. She cant sue you but you should think more of yourself then to contemplate running away and leaving her and your child to clean up a mess that you were involved with.
In all seriousness what you need to do is take a minute and pray on it, so that you may get the strength to take this situation head on and grow up. Whether you are with the mother or not she NEEDS YOUR SUPPORT and you need to give it to her, and you need to be a father to your child!
2007-02-25 18:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by perfection1908 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run away? You can't do that! You're the FATHER!! You can't abandon your GF because you were both irresponsible. It disguists me when guys run away from their responsibilities! Everyone would look down upon you for the rest of your life. How does this sound to you? "I left my pregnant girlfriend because I couldn't be with her...I have a child that I don't know". Speak with your girlfriend! If she WANTS you to leave then go...don't leave her, if you were a pregnant girl, you would be in more emotional stress than any guy, and a lot of physical stress!
2007-02-25 16:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by Captain Oblivious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard but when the baby is born you will be soo happy. It is so cool to have a little child and even if you don't love the person you will love the baby. Please stay and take care of it. Don't run as the child deserves a dad. She can't sue you but she can get child support. I am sure you are scared but it will pass. Call her and try to talk. Good luck.
2007-02-25 16:01:20 · answer #5 · answered by shea s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can sue you for child support.....................not sure why you want to run away or can't be with her but its really not fair for that child to grow up unwanted, and don't try to kid yourself it will because no matter how many good and loving people are in that child's life they will always feel unwanted by the one person that isn't and doesn't want to be in their life. This can sometimes cause a child to define themselves in a very negative way, the child will always have a little voice inside telling them that their is something wrong with them that you don't want to be in their life...........so no matter what the issues are that you are having think really long and hard before you cause that child a lifetime of pain.........
2007-02-25 16:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by irish eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had you thought of before having sex with your GF, you could have avoided this situation. Anyway, you can tell her to abort the child. By your statement "now I cannot be with her" means you have broken up with her. Am I right? I would suggest you to be with her. Running away or hiding yourself from her is not the solution to the problem. You both are EQUALLY responsible for this and need to sort out amicably.
Good luck and God bless.
2007-02-25 16:02:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please....don't run away. You can always find someone who can understand you and support you......family, teachers, counselors.....she can't sue you for that. Talk to your parents, talk to her and her parents.....there's always a solution for every problem. What seems today a big problem...will be in some months the light of your life. Try to be close to your girlfriend and if you can't let everything cool down and just ask God for courage and strenght.
2007-02-25 16:05:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the crap can't you be with her? I am going through that same BS right now and guys like you PISS me off. Don't run away puss. Be a man and step up, the child and your gf deserves way better and yeah, she can sue your butt for child support.
2007-02-25 15:59:25 · answer #9 · answered by angelsdeath420 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Guys like you give decent guys a bad name be a man you were good for the do so step up but then again you never truly wanted her in first place just some where to plant your seeds shame on you, i think she is better off without you poor girl. Luckily for her yes she can get child support off you and there is nothing you can do about and some times it's a good whack off your wages in her case I'd say she definitely deserves tough luck but there you go:)
2007-02-25 21:40:31 · answer #10 · answered by clare w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋