Don't worry, I'm old enough, but I just wanna know the "whole thing" not just fractions of it. Dont worry, I've already talked to my parents bout it....
2007-02-25 15:39:48 · 8 answers · asked by Laura M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you already talk to your parents and you still asking, then something isn't right and if you are old enough, but you have to ask any ways there something isn't right either. Why don't you talk with an expert counselor at school instead?
2007-02-25 15:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by Javy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The one thing that no one will ever tell you is that sex is messy. Fluids will get everywhere--sheets (or whatever you happen to be "doing the deed on"), people, everywhere! This is true regardless of orgasm, but it is even messier WITH orgasm.
Sex can be very hard to hide from parents due to mess and...well, loudness! The vast majority of women are either screamers or moaners--very few are silent. However, most men are very quiet.
Another thing is that sex has a very distinct smell. I can't even describe it well--sickeningly sweet and usually very strong.
It usually doesn't last long, especially with "inexperienced" people. The first time *usually* hurts the girl, but it NEVER hurts the guy. However, if your hymen has been broken, it probably won't hurt but it will feel a bit uncomfortable. In fact, it will probably feel pretty uncomfortable the first few times, especially if he is...well-endowed.
Foreplay is a must for many girls. If she is not properly aroused, then there's a good chance that sex will hurt regardless of experience.
There is a definite difference between how sex feels with a condom and how it feels without one. Some girls find the texture on condoms painful, but most don't. However, there is no excuse to not use a condom unless you are wanting to get pregnant. Birth control is only 99% effective, condoms only 97%. Best route is to combine both.
A few other important things to know:
Many, many girls do not orgasm.
Even more girls do not have g-spot orgasms.
You should always pee within 30 minutes of having sex. This will help prevent urinary tract infections. Contrary to popular belief, this will NOT help lower the chance of pregnancy.
Here is a good website for other questions: www.sxetc.org
Hope that was what you're looking for!
2007-02-26 00:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by Esma 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"Guts"? It's not about guts...it's about space on this website. There's a lot to explain. But, maybe someone wants to take a stab at it.
I spent hours at the library. Today, everything you need to know is on the Internet. Just make sure that the sources are reliable and not just some thinly veiled perverted porn site.
2007-02-25 23:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
read the bible, sex is a beautiful thing created for us to enjoy, but we have misused it and abused it to do a lot of bad and nasty things with it. Don't get sex advice from people who have no respect for sex.....get it from your parents or someone like your pastor who have genuine interest in your well being.
2007-02-25 23:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by calvin_0416 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
your parents are the best ones to talk to. if they haven't given you the information you seek, then you need to ask for the specific information you are after.
2007-02-25 23:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by Miss T 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your not old enough to hear it or do it, go ask mommy and daddy,silly one
2007-02-25 23:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by debbie d 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you????
2007-02-26 00:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by AFLAC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nasty.
2007-02-25 23:42:26 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋