When i approach hubby about it he just says not yet & why do you want a baby so bad but he doesn't understand that my clock is ticking. He has told me once we finish building our house we will think about it but i am hoping to have one around June 08, need some help trying to convince hubby our house will be finished by end of this year.
2007-02-25 15:38:47 · 11 answers · asked by Laura 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Why June 08?
This is something you need to tell him, explain why. Don't just say "Because I want one!"
Good luck, babies come when they want to come, it can take years!
Ash
2007-02-25 15:42:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to understand why your hubby is trying to wait for the child. He wants to make sure he can provied for his child with having no other financail burdens so all extra money can go to your child and prenatal care. He wants to make sure your house is finished so you and your child do not have to life in chaos for a while. Would you affter lets say a month of having your child want to move EVERYTHING you have???? would you realy feel up to it. Or even being pregant and doing that it's not fun TRUST ME. your man is smart to wait.
2007-02-25 23:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by Gypsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a while, my husband wasn't as ready as I was for a baby. After a while though, we came to the decision that "What happens, is meant to happen." From that point, we didn't make an effort to get pregnant, but weren't using BC either. That way, things weren't stressed, and when we did find out we were pregnant, it wasn't like it was a forced thing for either of us. It was still over a year before we got pregnant.
2007-02-25 23:51:17 · answer #3 · answered by The Hippy Momma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are in your late 30s, I wouldn't worry about your clock ticking. It is better to wait until you have a house.
2007-02-25 23:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ben Franklin once said that there 3 things that never happen at a convenient time: death, paying taxes and having children. Most of guys dont want to have kids because then we have to compete for your attention.
2007-02-25 23:44:10 · answer #5 · answered by rokdude5 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the hardest time saying what I feel when it comes to things like this and I've put up with a lot of none sense becuz of that and thats whats need. You to say what you feel just how you feel and don't wait to calm down say it when you feel it that way he understands just how passionate you are about it. blessings to you
2007-02-26 00:28:16 · answer #6 · answered by Shy Sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you want to have a child now, but it is never wise to convience anyone that they want a child.
He should come around and if he doesnt then it wasnt meant to be
2007-02-25 23:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by CookFrNW 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since it takes both of your to produce one, you have to be patient with him. I would suggest continuing your efforts at talking and communicating your wishes with him. Hopefully, after he sees your earnestness and sincerity, he may soften his position and agree.
2007-02-25 23:43:02 · answer #8 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its really better for u to talk with ur husbend about this matter...caz u cant do any thing without his support ...and its really good for u to convence him about ur point of view...i thing in husbend and wife's relation both should have discusions about everything...to make everthing smooth ...
Good Luck
2007-02-25 23:50:41 · answer #9 · answered by Good Wisher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try getting a puppy first
2007-02-25 23:42:50 · answer #10 · answered by Moo moo I'm a chicken 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋