I have a hard time letting people get close to me, and I tend to become critical - to the point of meaness - when people (significant others) get close to me, which of course drives them away - which I dont want! It seems like a viscious cycle - I dont want to be alone, but the minute I get close to someone BAM! I get compulsively emotionally abusive to them. It makes me hate myself!
Any advice from people who have been there as to how to stop?
2007-02-25 15:20:19 · 2 answers · asked by freshbliss 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You should talk with a therapist, they can help you break the chain of abusiveness. You deserve to be loved, and you are worthy of that love. Let them in. The past is gone and today you have seeked help, the future looks brighter already.
2007-02-25 15:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by wingedladyk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Counseling
2007-02-25 23:44:21 · answer #2 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋