Why is it that i am always trying to hook up with other women; when i have a beautiful wife?

Question

My wife has a great job where she makes alot of money and we get along great 95% of the time. The sex is good too. Sometimes i think i am just plain stupid!

Answer 1

You've got a serious problem with commitment my friend. Get some help before you lose your wife!

Tori

Answer 2

YOU ARE! You keep trying to get with other women because, you don't appreciate all the qualities in a real woman. It's not about how much money your wife makes anyway. You're obviously not HAPPY! ALWAYS REMEMBER THE OLD SAYING, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT YOU'VE GOT UNTIL IT'S GONE. Perhaps you should look into a hobby or something, because you don't have enough to do, or you can go back to school to make good money like THE WIFE, so you will live comfortably when she leaves your sorry behind. BE BLESSED!

Answer 3

i agree with moonshot, do you realize how easyly your wife could have some other man do her right(and you know what i mean) she has a great job, great personality, great in bed. Not hard to find someone else. You must be the kinda person that just wants to see how far can i go before i lose her and everything. Its a shame you know how many people struggle to put food on there table every night and youre worst problem is why do i keep *crewing over my perfect wife! My suggestion grow up and find a hobby other than cheating!

Answer 4

There is no simple answer.
Normal behavior before committing to a relationship is to seek possible candidates as a partner, evaluate them, commit to relationship. This is somewhat simplistic because there are many levels to a relationship and first you would normally go through commitment as a friend, a lover, a life partner. Once committed as a life partner normally the search to find someone to fill that role stops although we still evaluate candidates for friendship etc.
Maybe you have never really committed.
Maybe you have become habituated to the seeking or evaluation phases so that they are a separate process in your mind and not just part of a bigger process.
Maybe you have no real interest in relationship and just a gratuitous desire for self satisfaction.
Only you know why you behave this way and only you can decide to do something about it.

Answer 5

I agree with so many postings - you need to wisen up OR you will loose your wife. You can't have your cake and then gorge yourself on cookies and ice cream.

Sex is GREAT with a HOT wife who makes A LOT of MONEY. Hell boy, what more do you want. If you don't want that in your wife lets - trade places, divorce our wives and you can get a dose of the OTHER SIDE where ... sex is BAD with a UGLY wife, who has literally BANKRUPTED my savings and retirement.

I guess you and I both are morons, you wanting to have an affair or other relationships, and me just for being stupid.

Answer 6

You are not stupid so cut yourself a break. Being with one person is boring or can be at times.
Having another person validate you, lets you know that you still 'got it'.
Nothing wrong with the way that you feel but please try hard not to act on it.


sure flirt a bit if you must but dont do the deed.
If your wife is as pretty as you say, several men would jump at the chance to be with her too and your world would come down in shambles for what amounts to a wham bam see ya later bytch.
Would you really want to lose your wife for this?
p.s. I am certain that your wife feels the same way you feel too!

Answer 7

Seems you are thinking the grass is greener somewhere else. It is, over the septic tank! That's exactly where this type of thinking brings us,right in the middle of crap! You could hook up with someone else and find later that you traded one set of problems for a completely different set of problems. No relationship is without problems. Things you like about your wife you won't like about the new woman. It also sounds as if you need constant attention from women to feel good about yourself.

Answer 8

Hmmmm, this is a little hard to answer, but I'll give it a shot.

Does your wife compliment you often? Does she tell you how wonderful you are? Does she tell you how much she appreciates what you do for her? Does she tell you how handsome you are and how lucky she is to have you as her husband?

These questions might sound irrevelant, but if you think about it, could it be that you're insecure and you are seeking out women to tell you all the things that you'd like to hear, whether you realize it or not? Something to think about! Good luck!

Answer 9

You answered your own question. You mentioned your wife is beautiful, has a great job, makes a lot of money, and you get along well with her, great sex...never once did you mention how much you love her. If you do...then get it together and act like it, or you may find yourself alone

Answer 10

I use to cheat on my boyfriend all the time. It just became natural to me. After we broke up, I really learned to love myself. I started making more female friends and doing girl things. I learned to be independent and not need some one in my life 24/7. I think that you should try developing friendships with other males, maybe to watch monday night football with or develop friendships with male coworkers. You always see those people who are with their partner 24/7 and when life gets routine they need something new, such as maybe having sex with another woman.

Im sure your wife loves you, I hope you wouldnt be runing around her while she was home cooking your meals or taking care of your children. No person deserves to be lied to or cheated on when their sole priority in life is to ensure your happiness.

Dont be so selfish...make some friends...and get some hobbies, it will be good for you

Answer 11

Look at the name you use. Go get help before you screw up your wife and your life. Are you plain stupid or did you come from a family of cheaters? Learned behavior.