My last boyfriend was not only supremely selfish but also a huge LIAR -- how do I ever trust another man again? I've tried to meet new men, but I'm left with the suspicion that the entire male gender are lying users. Is this true? I don't trust a single one of them. If it's just in my brain -- how do I change this new mindset?
2007-02-25 15:09:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Just try, not all men are liars, learn to trust again and make sure you keep both ears and eyes open, pay attention to details.
2007-02-25 15:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please know that liars are not gender specific. I too have encountered my share of liars...but I am a man, so I am not sure how much weight my opinion will have with you ;)
Just know that not all men are liars...many of us stopped doing it while we were boys, and that's one of the things that seperate us men from those boys.
I do hope you find a man that will restore your faith in men.
Best regards.
2007-02-25 23:22:28 · answer #2 · answered by parrothead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
realize that some men are, but not all.. and just be more careful with who you get close to, because more than likely you saw signs of his selfishness or his dishonesty before it affected you the way it did, but you just decided to ignore it for whatever reason (i think we've all done that before).. and just don't become a man-hater, because then you wont find any man, even a ****-head liar
good luck
2007-02-25 23:17:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know your truth...
have some access points for checking up on things...
don't be dependent.
It's not all too romantic, but if you don't expect a lot, you may be pleasantly surprised.
Live well~
2007-02-25 23:28:49 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real Eyes
Realize
Real Lies...
Not all men are liars- you're just hurt and bitter right now. Time will heal. God doesn't want us to lie, so hopefully you'll find someone who want to please God, you, and himself- last.
2007-02-25 23:19:46 · answer #5 · answered by cornbreaded23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your own rules don't let him run everything.If he breaks the rules dump him.
2007-02-25 23:17:23 · answer #6 · answered by thresher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over your ex, then you will stop seeing him in all other men.
2007-02-25 23:22:58 · answer #7 · answered by The Angry Stick Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋