last week i think on like tuesday he asked out my best friend and of course she said yes. i was kinda mad at first but now i am really mad. she dosnt talk to me anymore she ignores me cause she thinks i am going to kill her. i wouldnt hurt her just cause shes going out wit my twin brother. but i think its kinda weird i dont kno if i should still be friends or not anymore. the way shes acting i dont wanna be friends anymore. do u think i should try and talk to her so she will beome my best friend agian cause i miss talking to her and hanging out. my stupid brother took my best friend, is that a good reason to hate him forever.
2007-02-25 14:26:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
no the reason she dosnt talk to me anymore cause she thinks i am reallllly mad at her for saying yes to him. so shes like scared to talk to me or something. but im not really mad at her im only getting madder cause shes not talking to me.
2007-02-25 14:33:33 · update #1
u idiot i wasnt the one dicthing her shes the one dicthing me. damn ur so stupid, i want to talk to her but she dosnt, so how is that me dicthing her. dumbass.
2007-02-25 14:37:06 · update #2
Emawee, as I recall you wanted to date his best friend too, so I wonder if he is getting back at you or if this is some kind of revenge. My guess is she will get tired of your brother really quickly and then they will break up and then it will be extremely fun to invite her over because it will make him awkward.
2007-02-26 13:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by Lori 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, just because he "took" your friend, don't mean you should hate your brother. there are two rules that i live by: 1 i will NEVER let someone get in between me and a member of my family, especially one as close as my brother, and 2 i don't let boys get in between us, even if the boy was my brother.Now, you need to first talk to your friend, and tell her that you are not mad at her for going out with your brother, that way, you would get your friend back, and then you need to not hate your brother. You all are in a strange situation because you are twins, and therefore the same age, whereas most girls' brothers are older or younger than them. Don't worry about it so much, just make sure that you make things right.
2007-02-25 18:20:49 · answer #2 · answered by Confused & Young 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to talk to them seperately and let them know how you feel. Try to make time to do something with your best friend just the two of you! Then tell her that you feel like you're being ignored and you just don't want it to be awkward. I think you'll be able to work things out. You should also tell your brother that it's your best friend and what's been going on between you and her since he asked her out. Maybe he'll try to include you more, or talk to her for you. Good luck! =)
2007-02-25 14:31:05 · answer #3 · answered by HOLLISTER♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be mad. My brother went out with a few of my friends in highschool and I got pretty mad about it to, but I look back now and it's like what was the big deal? I know she is your best friend now and your brothers girlfriend, but you can still keep your friendship. Friendships last forever, your brother won't be her boyfriend forever.
2007-02-25 14:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by tricksy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 23:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by northcut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least this time YOU didn't do something to get in trouble for once.
How about confronting HER? Go to your friend tommorow and say, "look, honestly, I'm not thrilled with you and my brother going out, but I'm getting madder with you avoiding me. It's like you did something wrong. I'll get used to it, but it would help if would just be normal with us."
That should do the trick. Just don't be too annoyed, or it'll get even MORE akward.
Good luck Em!!
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2007-02-25 15:17:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My Step-kids are only a year apart and my step-son is always going after his sister's friends and it causes tension. I would call her house or send her an email and tell her that you are not mad at her and that you miss talking to her. Tell her no matter what happens between her and your brother that you are always there for her.
2007-02-25 14:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she wont talk to you, maybe your bro can help....im kind of in the same situation. I told my bestestest friends cousin that i like her. and this friend is like my sister. and her cousin is pretty much the only family she has in her family. well i didnt tell her that me and her cousin hooked up, and she got mad. well after a few days, she wasnt mad anymore b/c our friendship was so strong, but it still felt weird for her...so yeah there it is. my life.
2007-02-25 15:06:25 · answer #8 · answered by MistaTim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she ditched you because she is going out with your brother - she is NOT a good friend. If she was really your best friend she wouldn't be ignoring you. Don't hate your brother, isn't his fault it's her actions.... i'd move on and find a new best friend.
2007-02-25 14:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by ~*Isabel*~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go up to her and start a fun conversation, and try not to bring up the subject, but if she does go along with it but dont be mad at her. Just be Nice. if she just walks away text her if you dont have texting Call her but put *67 so she dosent know who it is
- Carly
2007-02-26 15:19:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋