neither...
if there is someone that loves me and i can't share his love, will only burden me with guilt feeling and it's not fair for him.
being in love with someone that won't share it back will burden me with sadness and it's not fair for me...
i know these situations happen every day and they are almost out of our hands, but no one wishes to break someones heart, at least i don't...
i want someone that will share my life and have similar feelings towards each other...
2007-03-05 04:28:16
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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well i prefer the person that loves me but i didnt love, why? sometimes love can be dictated,for me you will learn to love that person or maybe because youre busy enough chasing the woman you love and didnt notice the effort and love that that other girl give to you.sometimes you need to find your center and learn to look at the other ways and you will notice that there is somebody out there who loved you more and if you learn how to appreciate it im telling you you will end in a sweet relationship.Why wandering and dreaming for a thing that you know that it cant be yours.Wake up dude!
2007-03-04 19:37:00
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answered by jody 1
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thrilling question. i'm unsure everybody can love you too deeply, and in case you think of they do then you definately are patently stricken by utilising their infatuation and you're no longer returning the sentiment. as a result, i might say the alternative could be with the only individual whom you enjoyed so extremely, yet then the question turns into do they love you extremely as nicely? Or does it remember? while you're extremely in love with somebody and that they do no longer return the sensation, you're probably greater depressing than with the guy who loves you too a lot. In relationships it variety of feels that one individual will love the different greater, yet effectual relationships have a sturdy and equivalent quantity of love as a base and then greater from between the companions. So, decrease back to the question handy, I nevertheless could desire to flow with the guy you enjoyed so extremely.
2016-09-29 22:10:44
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answered by doolin 4
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Neither one is good. There is a third choice to consider. You could try finding a person whom you love and who loves and respects you back. That is the best choice, and really not all that hard to do. You just need to have enough self-respect to realize that there IS someone out there worthy of your love, who will love you back, and then pursue a relationship with that person. Life is blissfully happy when you are in a healthy relationship with someone you love, who loves you deeply in return.
2007-02-25 14:34:02
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answer #4
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answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6
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I am in both these situations at the moment... I am with someone I don't really love and I love someone who fell out of love with me many years ago.
To be frank, I would rather have neither. The pain and guilt is too much
2007-02-25 22:58:43
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answered by Anonymous
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Neither! because I have the self respect and KNOW that I am worth the same love that I give... Life is to short
If my partner was going to break my heart I rather break it off first and left them know how it feels
2007-03-05 07:11:24
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answered by *G* 3
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If I was in this situation...I will take the one that loves me 100% without any hesitation...their love for me will make me happy and i will learn to love and appreciate them. If I take the one I love and he doesn't love me...I will be very jealous as I know he has not feelings for me, no matter what I will do I will feel needy and he will be bored with me...
But that is me and you asked. ...
2007-03-05 05:48:10
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answered by Ariana 4
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Neither of these choices are good. Life is too short to be with someone who makes you unhappy. You are better off being alone than being with someone who makes you feel lonely and bad about yourself.
2007-03-05 12:16:03
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answered by kelannde 6
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i prefer the person who loves me.. bcoz i know that he/she will understand my situation and i know that im going to learn to love him someday.. and will know how to care for me and cherish me for the rest our lives and would never ever hurt me.. b ut if its still hard for you to let go of the person you love.. consider looking for someone new.. im not saying it`ll be easy but it`ll take time..
2007-03-05 00:16:02
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answered by Teardrops 2
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a person that i dont love but he loves me u know y cuz then u might like him/her and they'de like u back
2007-03-05 10:35:01
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answered by Anonymous
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