I mean that if you love someone, is it important to give him your virginity not in the right time just because you love him?
2007-02-25 14:23:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No. Just because you love someone emotionally doesn't mean you're ready to love them physically. Don't let anyone pressure you into doing it when you're not ready.
2007-02-25 14:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if it's a love that is true, he will wait when it is right for you! If you truly love someone, you can't just stop loving them, if sex is not yet a part of the picture as love does not originate from the sex act. It is rather a frosting on the cake, but not a necessary ingredient for love to occur and grow. It's a great way to test someone's intentions anyway. If they wait, and honor your feelings, then that is an upstanding, respectful man, who is not out for self-gratification only. Good question!
2007-02-25 14:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he LOVES you, he will not pressure you to give him something so intimate and personal until you are ready to give it. Real love between a man and a woman is enhanced by sex, but sex is not the only thing -- they should share intersts and fun together first.
I know that without the experience of sex, it seems mysterious and wonderful. It can be -- but it can also be awful if you are being used. Until you are sure that it is about bonding, not using, hang onto that virginity.
2007-02-25 14:42:32 · answer #3 · answered by snickersmommie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you sound young. Love doesn't require sex. Sex is the gravy you get when love is an otherwise mundane meal. Don't confuse hormones with love or sex. If he pressures you it's not love. It's a conquest. A momentary thing that some confuse with love. It's not love, it's animal instinct. Someday it will be right for you and you want it to be special, when it is right for you. Not for him, that is one sided and not fair to you. You can still love him but you don't have to make love to him if you're not ready.
2007-02-25 15:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love someone and not have sex. It's possible, but most of the time emotional connections lead to sex. There are other ways to make love and show you care than using your body...
2007-02-25 17:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by sugarbear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no, save your virginity until you know deep in your heart that you are ready and willing to give it away.. sounds like he is pressuring you for sex and is trying to guilt you into it with the love question.
true love is about communication and comfort. if he really loves you, he won't want sex with you until you are totally ready.. tell him you aren't having sex until you get married and then you will see if he really does love you!
2007-02-25 15:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love never needs sex and sex doesn't need love. If your a virgin I recomend that you know for certain that you are in love and trust your partner. Sex is not simple and love isn't easy.
2007-02-25 14:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by roy_g_biv_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, my dear. Absolute not. You can love someone, especially, like a boyfriend and not having the need to have sex till you are married. good enough, yes?
2007-02-25 14:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by FILO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. sex is a holy thing. only married couples are allowed to do this. on the other hand, a married man can not lie with someone other than his wife, this is adultery. love can be shown in many ways like respecting the one you love. give him/her gifts that he/she may appreciate you.
2007-02-25 14:59:39 · answer #9 · answered by alexis a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey,
OK u shouldn't do anything if your not ready. doesn't matter if u love him or not. losing your virginity is a massive leap of faith and you want your first time to be the most perfect time of your life, not because you pushed into it or you just want to make him happy.
Good luck
2007-02-25 14:41:09 · answer #10 · answered by holdengirl005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋