i am 17 year old male and i want to know how do u truely know if your gay?

Answer 1

--The knowing what one is sexually, should indeed be physically obvious. We are simply male or female---not what we want to be!

--Homosexuality is a choice not a condition!
--A rapist is what a person choses to be!
--A pedaphile is what a person chooses to be!

----We are the ones responsible for our moral or immoral choices, our hormones do not have control over us unless we are a total male or female ORGAN walking around and all our other organs our inferior to our male or female prominence-- I do not think you think that is what we are like---I hope not!
--BUT INDEED that is what people seem to say when they indicate, well he has to much of testosterone--and couldn't help raping the 20 women, and who knows what else!

--So you indeed have a choice to whether you are going to be as God made you or succomb to perversions. We all have tendancies to be inclined to wrongness, that is not a REASON to do wrong, it is an EXCUSE--and a poor one!

Answer 2

You may be gay if you experience physical symptoms around males. For example your Penis get erected, or you feel warm and tingly.

Also if you have been sexually molested you should try girls too. You may need counseling to over your forced same sex orientation. Sexual orientation is determined by many life experiences as well as hormone effects.. If you are pre-teen or teen age see and doctor and get hormones injected toward your desired sexual preference..

May 11, 2005 - The New York Times has just reported on findings from Swedish researchers who claim to have found that gay males are attracted to a different kind of scent than heterosexual males. The study is interesting and gives some information about the brain, particularly the hypothalamus. The information is not conclusive and only provides information.
Their studies of straight and gay man were not confirmed by their equal studies of lesbian and straight women. Furthermore, males who identify more with their mothers, and may appear somewhat more "effeminate" in behavior, may still function very adequately and comfortably in normal heterosexual relationships, including marriage and family. There is no study of this group of males. In addition, there is no study of a select group of very masculine appearing and acting (husky) males. The same consideration applies the study of women.

Males who have anxiety about feeling love and closeness to their mothers would unconsciously and--neuroendocrine-wise--erect barriers to similar responses to other females. This might delay their movement into adult heterosexuality but not necessarily or even likely to prevent it. Similar reasoning applies to lesbian females.

Latest Gay Brain Study Scrutinized (Born with it study).
The mainstream media is reporting on the latest research that purports to show that gay males and heterosexual males respond differently to certain pheromones (scents).

The technique being developed by American researchers adjusts the hormonal balance in the brains to help the orientation.

``We Fall Down,'' is all about redemption _ and he is quick to point out that he is prime example.

In his 2001 book, ``Eternal Victim/Eternal Victor,'' and in last fall's DVD documentary, ``The Donnie McClurkin Story: From Darkness to Light,'' he revealed a childhood of sexual abuse, struggles with homosexuality and bisexuality, and personal battles against illness (he once had leukemia) and other tragedies.

McClurkin says revisiting his demons in the book and DVD was painful.

``But through the trauma it also gave closure and resolution to a lot of things, and I was able to deal with a lot of taboo issues, like sexuality and my struggle with bisexuality and how God helped me find myself, find who I really am,'' he says. ``The man _ not the bisexual, the homosexual, the man that I am, that's made for one woman, and he dealt with why it happened and what caused it to happen.''

But if you want to find out for sure and at the age of consent. Try an encounter (i.e, kissing a same sex person). Good luck.

Answer 3

i dont think anyone could TRULY know if theyre 100% gay or straight. im PRETTY sure im PRETTY gay. why? the only people i want sexually are men. emotionally? i dont know. i think i want men, too... but i dont know. i just havent been exposed to many personalities i can mesh with and get to know, unfortunately. i guess you just KNOW. if you find yourself, 10 years after puberty still wanting a man, then- you could probably conclude youre more gay than straight.

Answer 4

I cant remember where i heard this, but somewhere/someone said that if you are gay, then you have known it you whole life. I mean, not that you actually know you're gay, but that it seems like you've know it your whole life, or that somewhere deep inside of you, you knew you were gay, like you subconsciously knew it...You know what I mean???

Answer 5

I don't totally base sexuality on sexual feelings. I base it on closeness emotional connections. Many people think just because they think someone is hot that they're gay. That's not true. To me, it's all about emotions.

Answer 6

You will know when you know. If you are not sure, it doesn't matter. You don't need to label yourself. Explore your sexuality. Sleeping with men won't make youi gay any more than sleeping with women will make you straight. When you need to label yourself, if you ever do, you will know.

Answer 7

if you are around girls u feel more open with them but u cant see yourself with one because it would be wierd. but when ur around a guy ur shy, dont act like yourself, and more withdrawn. believe me i know how u feel b/c i wondered the same when i was 16 but im 17 now and i have felt the same like u.

Answer 8

If you are attracted to males more than females. If you have personal fantasies/dreams/crushes about males more than females.

Answer 9

most men dont like touching other men other than handshakes and slaps on the back .. so i would say if u have fantasies about that then ur gay ...

Answer 10

If you write "i" instead of "I", "u" instead of "you", "truely" instead of "truly" and "your" instead of "you're", then you know it...

The people who gave me thumbs down are either retarded or... retarded, because smart gay people would appreciate the humor. So, to all the retarded people on Y/A: leave your thumbs where they are (up your a**)!