2007-02-25 14:08:59 · 3 answers · asked by perfection1908 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Depends upon how you define "freak". I think guys love to experiment and think that we women don't like or want it. I think he would greatly appreciate some experimentation. If you are worried about him freaking out because perhaps he is very conservative, then try things a little bit at a time and see how he reacts. Talk about it with him gently. Tell him that you have a "wild side" and you wonder how he would feel about you showing him that side of you. If he is responsive, then take it gradually from there until you sense hesitation on his part. If he is bothered when you tell him you have a wild side, then you are going to have to have an honest and frank talk with him about your desires and try to work out something that makes you both happy. Good luck.
2007-02-25 14:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you want to do some experimenting with your sex life (as I assume that's what you're talking about). I don't know of a husband that wouldn't go WOO HOO and jump in feet first.
Have a frank and open conversation about what you are both comfortable with and what things, if any, are absolute no no's for the two of you.
An open conversation will let him know that you're interested in livening up your sex-life, but will also enable the two of you to make sure there are no misunderstandings that could lead to hurt feelings or bruised egos down the road.
2007-02-25 22:14:00 · answer #2 · answered by Raising6Ducklings! 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
bring him into it slowly. Sometimes, it takes people a while to open up. Start with small things and move on to bigger things as he gets more comfortable.
2007-02-25 22:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by pixie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋