i mean seriously no offense but i heard most childmollesters
and rapers were misterated when they were young thats why their attracted to children or sex under only violence.
i mean maybe gays are gay becuase they had issues with the opposite or same gender when young. or maybe their parents
mistreated or overtreated them, do u think?
2007-02-25 13:49:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I have noticed that many gay men have a stern, impossible to please, tuff-guy father. Maybe they feel the need to please a man because they never felt they could please their Dad.
2007-02-25 14:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by raggnaar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, personally, I believe some people are just born gay. I believe, as you said, some people end up homosexual because of past abuse, whether it's physical or emotional. And, I believe some people truly chose to sleep with the same sex, because for them it's a sort of unnatural sexual thrill.
If you are born homosexual, I honestly don't believe there isanything wrong with it. You are who you are, and God made you that way for a reason. If you chose to sleep with the same sex people, well, to me that's a bit deviant, but to each his (or her) own.
There have been various scientific studies... at least one shows that if the woman is under a tremendous amount of stress while pregnant, often they end up with a child who is gay or lesbian. Who knows why nature does what it does.
Take care
2007-02-25 14:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by MARIA_794 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask any gay person they'll tell you they always felt attracted to the same sex from the beginning, and medical science proves that sexual orientation is biological and is fixed at a young age. I never bought that rape or molestation causes it, after all that's a crime of assault and would be a painful experience wouldn't it? sex is supposed to be positive no matter what your orientation. people who have been raped or molested tend to want to avoid same sex activity. at least from what I've read.also, I think the ratio of hetero and homosexual pedophiles is the same. Either way it's WRONG. No matter what you think of it gay people shouldn't face this stigma for who they are. peace!
Vin
2007-02-25 14:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, i don't think they are gay because of that. people are gay because they look at a the world a different way than other people. i think that's great because everyone needs to be different. people think many gay men are very attractive so i don't think they have issues with the opposite sex. gay people are simply gay because they choose to be.
2007-02-25 13:57:05 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gayness is like people who smoke, they are weak-willed. They allow people to classify them as such and just accept it as it is. I truly think people who are gay, are lazy, they don't want to like the opposite sex because they feel threatened by them. To choose to be straight, that's the solution, but people are too lazy to figure that out, just like smokers are too weak willed to quit smoking cold turkey, it's all about making choices, alot of people make the wrong ones, unfortunately.
2007-02-25 14:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by y2kguyarea51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think what you will. Everyone else does. Hitler was abused (if you ask the right people) so was Attila the Hun, poor baby! Truth is no one has a clue. There may be some truth in all of it. Or none in any of it.
2007-02-25 13:59:19 · answer #6 · answered by T C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm no. cuz when a person is homosexual,, they are born like that. they have a different formation in their brain.
im straight,, but i think its mean how u compared homosexualls with childmollesters. gay people rnt dangerous, theyr just people with different views on their sexual preference.
i have a gay friend who would everr hurt anyone. so dont go being stereotypical
2007-02-25 13:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by twistedloves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gays are gay because God made them that way for the most part.
some women who were in hetero abusive relationships opt for gay relationships, but were likely bi-sexual to start with.
I don't think family has much to do with being gay.
2007-02-25 13:53:02 · answer #8 · answered by nanlwart 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, that's a misguide judgment too often tossed around.
As yet there is no definite thing that makes you gay, nor is there a definite thing that makes you straight, to my knowledge anyway.
2007-02-25 13:53:38 · answer #9 · answered by Keiko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope that an't true! my mom had the perfect childhood bascily and she is lez! o and by the way for the people that think this gayness is not passed on to the children! i'm shright!
2007-02-25 13:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by wings 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people become gay because of the enviroment they live in..i have a friend that is straight but he make friend with gay people and now he is gay.
2007-02-25 13:58:55 · answer #11 · answered by Adi M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋