I guess I hang with a pretty diverse crowd. Some of witch just hate each other. (my friends congregate at someones house like family , my crew i guess you say)Theres this kid(younger and does weed) and partly aspires to my friend (older by 2 or 3 years). My friend hates this kid for that (with a passion, prolly the weed ties into it). I wouldnt care but this is impacting my friends home cuz some of us know the younger kid and dont reject him The kid does not know my older friend hates him and hes been coming over to were we hang. He seems like a good person(kid). We are all 17-19 years old. Hes 16.how do I get my friend to not be so hostile? The only problem this kid poses is theat he smokes weed from time to time and it aint that disaterous of a thing to hate a person for.
2007-02-25 13:37:56 · 11 answers · asked by Mrdude 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Iif the kid is in danger warn him. I know that's a snitch. But why go down with the crowd. Other wise. Ask the guy what's his problem with the other one and tell him he's a OK guy and if its the pot then tell the guy he needs to lay off the drugs and see if that matter to your friend. There maybe more there than you know and if you don't ask you want know. Addiction may have torn his family appart so you need to understand how someone feels.
2007-02-25 13:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by rainingonme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had to laugh at the "not eat" friend part. But that's besides the point. It's a possiblity that there's nothing you can do to make them get along. The older kid might be jealous that this new kid is joining your group, and angry that he does drugs. Does your older friend have bad experiences with drugs? Not that I'm condoning the use of weed, but everyone has their faults. Maybe try to get them to spend time with only the three of you together.
2007-02-25 13:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by golden_sunset_xiii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why could you sense insecure a pair of assertion that became made by using a fool? the guy has had 3 marriages in under 10 years, and a minimum of as many low priced affairs. Does that sound like a guy who's attentive to the thank you to fulfill a woman? He can not purchase a superb lady and he's attentive to it. he's an unhappy guy, attempting to make himself look reliable in individuals's eyes, while you're a useful guy with a loving spouse and youngsters. He does not be taught to you. i could have advised this guy that i did no longer savour his irrelevant remark. as quickly as mentioned, i could have walked way and enjoyed something of the night with my spouse. never could i think insecure a pair of assertion that became made by using him. He does no longer be welcome in my domicile and that i does no longer motivate any further interplay with him in social settings. whether he apologized, he and that i could no longer maintain a friendship. if your spouse did no longer pay attention him say this, i does no longer point out the incident to her. She does not ought to be pulled into this way of crap. If she did pay attention it, you should ask for forgiveness to her for his lack of understanding--assuring her which you do no longer approve of such outragious habit. you're a grown guy. manage the difficulty like a guy and forget approximately approximately this fool. he's extra depressing than you could think of. sense sorry for him and flow on. ultimate needs.
2016-12-18 10:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man and tell your hateful friend to back off the 16 year old, that he is your friend.
If he cant respect that you dont need a hateful loser pothead who's looking for problems anyway. Like I said, be a man and stand up for others. If you dont, who will?
If he dont like it, tell (dont ask) him to leave.
2007-02-25 13:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by Victor ious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first get your friend to rehab and chase down his dealer.
and than get the 2 to dicuss there differences (without weapons or violence) which means have 2-4 large strong people to hold them back
2007-02-25 13:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by ratmaster199105 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL YOUR FRIENDS TO JUDGE THERE BEHAVORS FRIST AND BE REAL NOT FAKE BECAUSE THERE FAKE BEING AROUND SOME THEY DONT LIKE AND THAT PERSON DONT EVEN KNOW.WHAT THAT TELLS YOU ABOUT THEM . AND ONLY GOD CAN JUDGE AND REAL FRIENDS WOULD TALK TO HEM ABOUT IT OR A LEASE TRY TO GET HEM OUT OF THE HABBIT PS CRACK IS WORST
2007-02-25 14:13:23 · answer #6 · answered by SLIM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that the best thing for you to do is to find other friends. there has got to be better people for you to hang with than this. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-25 13:58:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel you i have two friends hat would trade there mothers to kill each other the best thing is sit them down and ask them why they don't like each other and if there hatred is worth losing your friendship....trust me they'll make up
2007-02-25 13:41:32 · answer #8 · answered by Deon K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get new friends and get off the weed
2007-02-25 13:47:32 · answer #9 · answered by Cheryl J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get new friends.
2007-02-25 13:41:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋