2007-02-25 13:20:50 · 12 answers · asked by gigs 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Nothing is inherently "bad" or "good". Think about the consequences of whatever action you are having doubts about and make your own value judgment from there.
2007-02-25 13:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by Thirdeye 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is inherently wrong. Simply because when you fool around your causing your risking alot and creating an excuse to lie and cheat. Your enabling others to do so with your behaviour. Yet it is your choice after all if you fool around then the only person that has to live with it is you. If you tell your partner then your definitely going to be the only person to live with it. I believe in simplicity and therefore avoid married, attached but looking types. I have enough to deal with, don't need drama. Therefore my opinion is that it is not so good. Then again what if your bored on Saturday night number 676? Whatever.....
2007-02-25 13:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by The One 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on what your definition of fooling around is. However, if you consider yourself in a committed relationship then it is never alright to fool around. You causing the break down in one of te main pillars to a relationshiop and that is the pillar of trust. There is no relationship without it. Given that the trust bond must be cultivated by both parties, thwen fooling around doesnot give the partner the oppurtunity to truly explore that possibility. If you truly desire tis relationship to grow and become something worth while than donot consider ever to fool around.
2007-02-25 13:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends what you mean...if you're referring to infidelity then yes it's wrong. You cheapen yourself and the person you're cheating with & you hurt your partner. If you're not in love with your partner then have the decency to break up with them before you start seeing someone else!
If however, you are just referring to hanky panky & you are single consenting adults then no I don't think it's bad. Personally I think intimacy should be part of a loving relationship. I've never been intimate with someone who wasn't in love with me but then that's just me. I don't think it's "evil" to engage in activitites as long as no one (including you) is being hurt.
If you live by this rule then you can't go wrong: If no one is being hurt, it's ok. If anyone is being hurt in any way, it's wrong. Be honest with yourself, you know the answer in your heart.
2007-02-25 13:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by amp 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only if you are married or fooling around with sombody who is.
2007-02-25 13:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No actually it is a lot of fun but too many people get their feelings hurt so I quit.
Love and blessings Don
2007-02-25 13:29:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if the fooling around hurst... that's all.
2007-02-25 13:34:02 · answer #7 · answered by Richard15 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it would be better to be in an open relationship where neither person is committed to the other (not married, no kids), than to be in an apparent monogamous/committed relationship, but not upholding those standards.
2007-02-25 13:31:05 · answer #8 · answered by Psy_Chick 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my opinon, yes. But its up to you to decide what you think for it to mean anything.
2007-02-25 13:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well think about the consequences.
2007-02-25 13:29:01 · answer #10 · answered by CHAEI 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋