these 2 guy are both my friends but there fighting because they hate each other. and they want me to choose between them. and i can't. please help!
2007-02-25 12:57:09 · 12 answers · asked by chica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well you can't really stop them from fighting. If you can't choose between them tell them that and tell them you don't want them to fight and you just want to be friends with both of them and if they can't be friends and not fight over you especailly since you can't choose then they shouldn't be friends with you and you should just ditch them both.
2007-02-25 13:00:41 · answer #1 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont have 2 boys yet I actually have a 9 b and 10 g and that they have got their days while they cant even seem at one yet another without struggling with so on those days they get to take a seat down on the settee with one yet another and carry hands or lock hands for 5-10 minutes. They HATE this! And in the event that they have rather been lil butts they get to tell one yet another they love one yet another each couple of minutes. i will think of if 2 - 3 boys had to try this it could be worse. Now if their struggling with i will warn as quickly as that next combat leads to conserving hands time and that they flow their seperate procedures...for the main area. and that i cant lie.. this is thrilling to video exhibit :)
2016-09-29 22:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you see value in the friendship of each, that is yours, not theirs.
Don't make then force you to take sides. Don't be around either when the other can see you.
Don't talk to either about the other.
If you're forced, I'm sure you'll decide which one to keep. But beware, once the competition is over, the one you keep might change.
When I was in high school I could never figure out why some of my female friends had boyfriends that were such a**holes. Then I figured it out, they weren't a**holes around them.
2007-02-25 13:04:50 · answer #3 · answered by mt_hopper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u be with both take one out and then take the other or say that u need some body guards for pertection. If that dosent work then u can create a situtaion and see who comes to u aid of crouse u will be alright but if u get mad at one make him fell guilty and to the one that came to ur aid that if you love me or have feelings fo me that he should be friends with the other boy who you dogged
2007-02-25 13:03:58 · answer #4 · answered by star7money 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make it clear to them that you like them both and that you would like to remain friends with both of them. Tell them if you have to choose you will walk away from both of them until they can sort it out.
2007-02-25 13:02:33 · answer #5 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell em both where to go.
if my friends ever made me choose i'd be hella pissed. I'd pick the one that didn't make me choose.
Tell em both to stop being immature and to come see you when they've grown up
2007-02-25 13:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
they probably both like you and want you to make a choice and when it comes to guys you can't make them like each other! they probably hated each other at first sight because they saw the other as a rival
2007-02-25 13:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you can't choose, that they are both great people, and leave it at that.
2007-02-25 13:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get them in close proximity. grasp first boy by back of head. Repeat to second boy. Now move your hands in and inward motion as hard as you can...walk away.
2007-02-25 13:01:52 · answer #9 · answered by tara b 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you will stay away from them they will be a very good friends .
2007-02-25 13:16:12 · answer #10 · answered by raja h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋