im in love with a guy, hes so sweet and caring i love him so much, the only problem is hes 24 years older than me... im not that old, is it still okay to date him and stuff?
2007-02-25 12:48:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
im fourteen
2007-02-25 13:08:20 · update #1
honey. that is called statutory rape, even if you want it. He'll get locked up and if you loved him, you wouldn't want that. By the time you are ready for kids he will not be able to give them to you. He's just too old.
2007-02-25 13:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by tara b 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I am telling you this only for your protection okay please listen. You are 14 and he is WAY older than you. What does that old of a guy want with a 14 year old. i am sure you are pretty and caring, but trust me it is better you don't date him or anything. I was 17 dating a 30 year old guy he seemed so normal. One day something snapped he hit me. He was a complete psycho. Seriously what does he want with a 14 year old. Remember it is statutory rape too. The one that is for you will come it may not seem like it, but he will. If you need anything please email me smartinez83_801@yahoo.com. I may not know you, but i do care about your safety. and dating him is NOT safe.
2007-02-25 21:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by mommyoftwo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok so lemme get this straight ur in love with a 38 year old. Date someone your own age. besides its illegal. It is wierd seeing a 14 year old girl with a 38 year old man. Everyone will think hes would be your dad instead of ur boyfriend.
2007-02-26 02:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so saying you are 14 i would set the age bar a little lower by like oh say 24, 25 years, and i think it is aginst some rule or law. But go for a guy my age (i am 14 too.)
2007-02-26 01:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by speedy >>> 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're 14. No. If you really love him, you'll accept that anything between the two of you is illegal, and you'll wait. If you love him, you can wait. When you're 18, if you still love him, then do as you will. I know it seems harsh. You love him now and you want to be with him now, but I guarantee that if it's real, it'll be worth it to wait. If you're willing to wait, that shows respect, and you can't have true love without respect.
2007-02-25 21:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by Tetris Panther 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. If he's doing ANYTHING with you, it's sexual abuse and statutory rape because of your age. The guy's a pervert to be even near you with anything on his mind. No. It's not OK. You'll be lucky if you don't end up seeing him go to jail.
2007-02-28 20:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ew, no. He's clearly not a good person. Also, you are fourteen and you may think you love him, but I bet you don't.
2007-02-25 22:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by meghanhappy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!!! holy ******* ****. I am not going to say that it is wrong, but where we live (Year 2000 ) I don't think ts going to be accepted until your 18 or so, I am not going to say that it is wrong, because if my mom wasnt married at 15 years old, and I wouldnt be saying this to you if that hadn't happened 35 years ago
2007-02-25 21:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
At fourteen you should not be thinking of that, have fun being a kid!
2007-02-25 21:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by Golden Ivy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. His actions could plainly signify kindness toward a younger person.
2007-02-25 20:55:21 · answer #10 · answered by ngot 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋