My boyfriend wants to make out and so do i but i dont no how can i have any tips!
2007-02-25 12:47:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Wow. It's really hard to give you any definite tips. So take my advice with a grain of salt. I've had 5 boyfriends in the last 20-something years I've been alive. Making out should happen naturally-- dont force it. The best you can do is get yourselves in a good setting (moviehouse, car parked, moonlight walk, anywhere romantic) and let the atmosphere take care of the rest. When you first start out it will be awkward. Neither of you will know how to start or where to place your hands (should I put my arms around him or just leave it at my sides?) Just do what feels natural to you. The best part of making out isn't really in the technique or how your mouth fits over his. INTENT is the most powerful thing in the moment. No matter how inexperienced you or both of you are, just the fact that both of you want this moment to happen is going to be powerful enough to make the magic happen. You'll feel something in the space between you that you can't put your finger on. That could be love or hormones (hahaha) but it's one of the most special feelings you can ever experience in your life. Relax, and if it gets weird like your teeth are hitting against each other or you're not really feeling IT, just tell your partner and start over again. You can always start by gazing into each other's eyes and gently hugging each other. Then let things go from there. There's no rush. No one will be standing over you with a camera and clipboard, rating your techinque or whatever. If it doesn't happen then, try another time. You'll always remember the first time you kiss someone special. I know when I've felt it when I feel my body go weak and I have to lean on the guy for support. Then I start grinning like crazy and I can't stop noticing every little thing about him. Good luck to you and don't forget, anytime you do something right or wrong.... there is always a pause in time, that split second where you have the power to make a choice whether to continue that action or not. Making out can lead to other things, if you know what I mean. Be responsible even if you're falling fast, and always let your common sense prevail before you completely lose your mind ok.
2007-02-25 13:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by kukimoh 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Remember making out does not specifically mean sex. You don't have to go all the way. Decide how far you're willing to go prior to the activity so you can decide if you need to use protection. Have fun and stay safe
2007-02-25 12:51:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-09-29 22:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow his lead.
2007-02-25 12:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by lisateric 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm with u on this one...
just be real cute and say u don't know how, and that u like being taught. He will think its sexy, and he will slowly work his way up with you. Eventually u will b a pro
2007-02-25 12:52:32 · answer #5 · answered by dall4wwf 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Tell him no if he does not listen leave
or tell him to leave
no one tells you what to do with your body
2007-02-25 12:51:04 · answer #6 · answered by Cheryl J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a piece of paper to your boyfriend. Both of you grab a marker at the same time. And you both spell......O U T. Problem solved......did you both do ok?
2007-02-25 12:50:50 · answer #7 · answered by allindotcom@sbcglobal.net 4 · 1⤊ 5⤋
how old are you?
2007-02-25 12:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by imconfusedallthetime 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋