Ok I have this bestfriend and i love him to death in both ways..
well he is 19 adn im 14 and i really really want to be with him adn he wants to be with me..
i cry everynight cause Im know i have to wait till im 18 well know he is tell in me he dont want to wait he wants to havae me now well...
i want him now and idk what to do cause
im 14 and in school he is 19 and in the army
can you help me
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2007-02-25 12:38:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He is old enough to go to jail and be labeled a sex offender for being with you. There is something wrong with a man who wants to be with a child that way. He is either retarded or a pedofile.
2007-02-25 12:45:05 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. Sleep with him, he goes to jail and when he gets out he has a pedophile lable on him for the rest of his life and goes back t jail if he's ever caught hanging around a school or church, and oh yeah, he gets kicked out of the army and and now he can't even get a job at WalMart since they do background checks. Get the picture?? LEAVE HIM ALONE if you care about him at all. It mostly sounds like lust since all you said was you want him. The whole sentence is "you want him to be happy."
2007-02-25 20:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please don't take offence at this, but for a 19 year old man to be wanting to hang out with a 14 year old girl - that is not healthy.
He is simply looking for an easy target. I'm sorry but you really are too young to be persuing a relationship with this guy and he should know better than to encourage a young girl into a sexual relationship.
Keep it platonic, but my advice would be to cease contact with him all together.
2007-02-25 20:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by Corsetry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all I respect your wish but I would like to say some to you and your lover must know that ,you are 14 and under age and in this age every one of us had his mistakes but trust me and lessen to me if you quit your school you are going to destroy your future
completely plus you are going to regret on your self please don't do that for your own sake . keep your self in school go out with him in a week end after your parents permission , I know you have a very good heart and motions . life is a very hard with no full education ( which better to say she is a doctor or on a welfare payments) i love you you are in my niece age .I wish i could explain more to you , English is a second language to me .
2007-02-25 21:00:07 · answer #4 · answered by raja h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is too old n if you do go together then he is going to go to jail for adultry
2007-02-25 20:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by Brandy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl wait,plus he can go to jail and be label a sex offender
2007-02-25 21:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one word: pedophile.
2007-02-25 20:41:56 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE THE GUY ALONE
2007-02-25 23:22:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋