I met this girl 5 nights ago, and we've had mad, hot sex every night so far. She's a hot Puerto Rican mami, and the thing is, I've already started to have feelings for her.
I know it's waaaay early to be talking about something serious here, but when I step back and think about it... she makes me feel good. I like being around her. I want to see her when I'm not with her. She is somewhat butch, which I like, and personality-wise we complement eachother--she's strong and dominant/'take charge', and I guess you could say I'm the 'feminine, pretty one'... more submissive and eager to please. I just MELT when she opens the door for me or acts protective of me!
I don't know, though... my heart says "YEAH!" to this girl, but my head says "Waitaminute, girl. You met this woman and hooked up for sex, and now you're starting to get attached? What kind of basis is this for a real, solid relationship?"
Have you ever had a successful longterm relationship grow from a casual sex hookup?
2007-02-25 12:31:25 · 6 answers · asked by Rissa 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
The guy I am with right now we tarted out as friends then grew into friends with benefits. Had lots of hot sex and then desided that we wanted to be together. We have been together for 2 years now and are planning on getting married. I think that you can tell if you want to be in a relationship with a person right away. The thing is to make sure you get to know her better before comming onto her with the relationship, and make sure that she wants a relationship.
2007-02-26 11:44:10 · answer #1 · answered by Naru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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A casual sexual relationship, casual connection, or casual dating, is a physical and emotional relationship between two people who may have casual sex or a new near-sexual relationship without automatically demanding or expecting the extra commitments of a more formal romantic relationship. Motives for casual relationships vary. There are considerable gender and cultural variances in acceptance of and also breadth of casual romantic relationships, as well as throughout regrets about action/inaction in those relationships.
A casual relationship may be part-time, or for a restricted time. It may or may not entail partner-exclusivity. In every single case, the relationship's dominance within the lives of those involved is it being voluntarily limited, and there is usually a sense that the relationship is intended to endure only providing that both parties wish that to. Casual relationships at times include mutual support, affection and enjoyment, which underpin other styles of loving relationship. [citation needed]
People in a informal sexual relationship are sometimes often called "friends with benefits", nevertheless the terms may differ in that the latter term carries less in the implication of relations beyond sexual practice. A one-night stand can be different, as a casual sex relationship extends beyond 1 sexual encounter. To the extent that casual sex away from casual relationships includes relaxed sexual contact, the casual sex is normally focused on fulfilling sexual desires instead of romantic/emotional needs.
2014-06-02 09:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad to see Naru say that her relationship is working out and they're going to get married because, unfortunately, I've never seen casual sex turn into a serious relationship. Not me, not my friends, nobody that I know.
I work in a family law office, we do divorced and paternity suits, so I guess I tend to see the people whose relationships have failed but, still, not even one of my friends has made a casual sex relatlionship work. Even my gay friends, the longest one of those relationships lasted was a year and a half and, by the end, my poor pal was emotionally exhausted and financially hurting.
So take it slow, please! How do you know if you even share common goals or values? Is she looking for somethign serious? I wish you the best of luck.
2007-02-27 01:04:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 12:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a girl. so yes
2007-02-27 18:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by Angela T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love you!
2007-02-25 16:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋