My boyfriend wants to separate with me. I love him very much. I am living with him and he wants me to move out (I don't want to move away from him). The thing that confuses me is that he tells me he still loves me and we are still very passionate with one another, kissing, cuddling etc and we're still having sex.
What the heck is going on? I thought people that separate or have a break from each other do it when they aren't all kissy kissy. . .
Any ideas peeps?
2007-02-25 12:29:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just move out and move on with your life. I think he has someone else and i do not feel that he still loves you at all. he is just using you for sex if you ask me. If he really loved you he would not want to break up with you. this does not make sense.
2007-02-25 13:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds confused, Like so many people out there. I suggest talking about it then if he still wants you to move out-do it. Take a break from each other but DON'T let him keep you on the side...I wouldn't kiss him and all that. I'm sure he DOES love you but is he still IN love with you? I would ask that. Good Luck!
2007-02-25 12:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by angelsdeath420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is wanting you to move out and still declares his love for you.....red flag! It could be that he is in love with two women at once. It is possible to love more than one at the same time because it would be a different kind of love. Some people have "emotional" relationships that turn into physical ones when the opportunity allows it.
Stop giving into his affections as long as he is asking you to move out. He doesn't want to hurt your feelings whatever the reason he wishes the separation... However, you don't have to set yourself up for more anguish. I agree that you should give him space. The answers will always come out when they are supposed to.
Best of luck to you :)
2007-02-25 12:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by rggiggles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention to their actions, not their words. Partners are like refugees, they vote with their feet.
You aren't getting closer by moving out, are you? If it doesn't make any sense, then it isn't real.
2007-02-25 13:17:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
some men who are having problems will try to do their best to make you feel like you are special...even though he wants you to move out...now thats drastic...sounds like he has another interest...ask any man who has cheated how they treated their gf or wife while it was going on....
2007-02-25 12:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup, here is an idea for you, new woman
he can't really bring over his new girlfriend if his old one is living with him now can he
2007-02-25 13:16:50 · answer #6 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh same is with me but iam married what a coincidence
2007-02-25 12:39:06 · answer #7 · answered by honeybuzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to be a player
2007-02-25 13:08:21 · answer #8 · answered by tj b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋