2007-02-25 12:18:44 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well if you are married to him yes, if sex is important to you talk to him, guys are not deaf and they will listen to requests, I know my hubby listens to what I like and don't like, and I mean we talk about it with cloths on, not just in the bedroom. Try talking to him, or ask him to tell you what he likes in bed and you do the same. Everyone can learn about their individual partners likes and dislikes over time. Be blessed with what you have in your relationship.
2007-02-25 12:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by Hawaiisweetie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Old book The Joys Of SEX. Get a copy and look at it together and then try some of the things on each other.I'm a man well endowed [ 11 inch soft] so never had a problem with a woman that sucked at sex,if I did I would stay and try to teach her things.
2007-02-25 12:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by Goodfellar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course. Sex isn't really that important. Not too many people really know what sex is as defined. Sex is the art of creating a child. But making love, is the art of showing someone how much you care for them. And you can make love by having sex or holding hands. Sex is usually abused. People have sex all of the time and it means aboslutely nothing to them. If sex weren't an act of showing someone how much you love them instead of feeling good then we still wouldn't have good people with good relationships.
And I am appalled by all of you who said no. That shows how immature, simple minded, and stuiped you really are.
2007-02-25 12:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by eissalc_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse! Love dosn't need to be based on sex alone!...unless you prefer a man who is good in bed but sucks on every other way?! Maybe you can do something about it, like teach him how you want to be touched, experiment more with him so he'll know what to do.My man used to be like that because we were both virgins and after years of being together, gosh!...he could be a sex guru or something!
2007-02-25 12:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by spoiled_rotten_gurl18 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
yes i would who cares what hes like in bed its whats in the heart that counts because you need a nice man who can support you and help take care of you not what hes like in bed
2007-02-25 13:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by Brittani A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You can teach a nice guy to be good in bed, but you can't teach a bedhopping, lying Casanova to be a nice guy, no matter how hot he is in the sack.
2007-02-25 12:44:22 · answer #6 · answered by sparticle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.....if his "tool" works, then he shouldnt suck in bed. Its up to you to tell him how to please u. He wants to, i am sure. But, some men just arent as inclined as others.
So, take the bull by the horns, and coach him as to exactly what he needs to do and what u like and dont.
U would be surprised how some men like a woman to do that.
Its worth a shot, and u never know, he may end up being the absolute bomb!
Good luck.
2007-02-25 12:24:26 · answer #7 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-18 10:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a hard question to be honest about but no . Sex is a part of the relationship that really brings you together .If your not satisfied with it you can get fustrated and even angery. sexual urges are strong you will start looking for satisfaction.
2007-02-25 12:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by suzanne w 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try and teach him. Communicate with him and tell him what you like from him. Tell him you want your love making to be as perfect as all the rest of your life.
2007-02-25 12:21:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋