he has been seperated for about 4/5 months but still talks to his wife .he ask like he is instertd in me sometimes how can i tell this is running me crazy.i have been unhappy in my married for a long time and i realy like this guy. what do i do ?
2007-02-25 12:13:00 · 15 answers · asked by blondiek 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is only what you want would work. If you are unhappy in your marriage you should have seeked some sort of professional help and if this has failed then I would advice this that you could try to start something with this guy but the right way. You would have to first find out if this guy likes you seriously because I am not one for the affairs. Then you talk it over with your husband after making a solid decision on what your status with this guy and what you want it to be ask him for a divorce. Then in this time your friend is suppose to be looking into getting into a divorce himself and you guys could then start dating and let things just go into whatever you want it to be. At this point you could say just go with the flow.
Good luck on your decision just be very smart about it and see what benefits YOU not anyone else but make yourself happy for once!
2007-02-25 12:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that Esperanto you're speaking there? Hmmm.
Anyway - women, especially married women, do not have married male friends. Women who do so are simply attention whores keeping a stable of pathetic little cheaters hanging around them in hopes they might someday see you without your panties.
If you are unhappy in your marriage, and have been for some time, tell your husband you have been unhappy and get a divorce. Then when you have affairs with married men you will only be breaking up one marriage, not two.
2007-02-25 13:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are married, therefore you are cheating, either work on your marriage or divorce him. Your husband needs your attention and you worrying about your marriage not if someone who is also legally married likes you. He might just be showing interest to get some, he might not even be showing that much interest but you are so void of physical/emotional contact that you are grabbing at straws.
2007-02-25 12:18:24 · answer #3 · answered by Hawaiisweetie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't cheat. The grass is always greener on the other side. If you don't want to be married, tell your spouse. You could get counselling to improve your marriage. Also, your coworker is still married. He is separated, but still talking to his wife, which sounds like they are trying to reconcile.
2007-02-25 12:18:56 · answer #4 · answered by QT 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-01 23:54:23 · answer #5 · answered by czech 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being that woman. If you are unhappy with your marriage then work on it. Screwing around with some other guy is not going to help your marriage. But then you already know that, right?
2007-02-25 12:18:38 · answer #6 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
LEARN TO SPELL AND SPEAK....I CAN'T UNDERSTAND A WORD YOU'RE SAYING. SOMEONE COULD HAND YOU THE CORRECT ANSWER BUT YOU WOULDN'T UNDERSTAND IT IF IT WERE SPELLED CORRECTLY.
In case that was too educated for you to understand...
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2007-02-25 13:17:04 · answer #7 · answered by eissalc_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either work on you marriage or get out of it. Then, and only then, think about another man!
2007-02-25 12:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by Kimber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you i still married, being with him, will derived you away from your husband more, instead of trying to make it work, just b professional for now.
2007-02-25 12:37:03 · answer #9 · answered by celi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get involved until the divorce is final unless you want to continue being unhappy. you are smart you already know...
2007-02-25 12:24:42 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋