I changed plans at the last minute when we were going to see a movie and this is what my friend said on the phone "GEZZ (my name) YOU ALWAYS BLOW PEOPLE OFF, IM SICK OF IT"!!!! "YOU ALWAYS BLOW PEOPLE OFF, IM SO SICK OF IT!! "YOU DO THIS ALL THE TIME, AND ITS SO WEIRD"!!!!!!
I dont do it all the time. Should i still be her friend after the way she talk to me like that??
2007-02-25 11:55:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
granted I only know your side of the story. If you really don't do often then she's being wrong in overreacting and getting upset.
But you should also evaluate how often you've done this (if that's the case). i only say this because I've been on the other side of this. i have a friend who always does that. We invite her places she said she'll go or she'll do something with us, but then at the last minute "something will come up" or she just straight out make excuses (usually it's been for a guy; she won't say this, but we later find out) its really annoying and i wish we could just tell her how annoying it is that she's such a flake, but we've never said anything to her. sometimes I wish we would.
2007-02-25 12:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by socal13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend probably was just disapointed that you changed plans, becuase she was looking forward to the movies or whatever. You'll probably feel the same.
I don't know why you changed plans, but if it was for something important,then you should of told her Your sorry I had to change plans, but I have to do something very important that needs to be done, or taken cared of. And your friend should get an understanding of what you gotta do for you in your fam, or house or any of your personal life comes first.
But if you didn't blow off the event for no right reason then she had the right to feel that way. That was an event she probably couldn't wait to go to. So I think you guys should stay friends.just explain to her why you changed plans, and make another day to go to the movies. Well, bye my mom is calling me to get off the computer.Tootles amiga!!! :)
2007-02-25 12:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by Ebby♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the friendship "time to heal." It's never wise to burn bridges. . She is probably feeling like you have rejected her.Show her kindness and consideration and let her know you are sorry that you canceled the movies with her and that someday you would like to make it up to her. In the future try to keep your promises. Never cancel something with one person to do something you think is more fun with another. That is not a good practice. Good Luck
2007-02-25 12:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by andyt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was so mad because she wanted to go to the moves with you maybe she likes you and couldn't wait to got to the movies with you then she gets a call saying you canceled you never know this girl might have feelings for you lol.
2007-02-25 12:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is entitled to their bad days, your friend mite have been having a bad day and it was just a way to bow off some steam. make sure you explain to her why u couldn't make it. but don't end ur friendship. also if she does the same thing to you be like now were even
2007-02-25 11:58:55 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me, that she should not be friends with you. Your the problem, you dont make plans with somebody and then dont bother with them if you get a better offer.
2007-02-25 12:02:53 · answer #6 · answered by StevieMo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She was probably just very disappointed that you changed plans that she'd been looking forward to. Yes, you should stay friends.
2007-02-25 12:01:58 · answer #7 · answered by Tender Hearted 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u should still be her friend she was robbaly just having a bad day....and yelling at you that way was probbaly a wy to let off some steam...so just explain to her why you couldnt make it
2007-02-25 12:13:09 · answer #8 · answered by I love when emo boys make out 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to her and tell her straight that she has no right talking to you like that an how would she feel if you spoke to her like that
2007-02-25 12:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you deserved it
2007-02-25 12:01:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋